Collarspace

I think I have done a do-over to near my satisfaction.. feedback appreciated though.

Extra update now dating two wonderful women, still always happy to chat and make friends and see what happens.

Hello! and welcome to my profile.

I know not what brought you here, be it research, anger, curiosity or a tingle in your loins, but all are welcome to send me a message or a friend request, to find out more of which you seek.

So, about Me! A bit of a geek, I like my sci-fi and fantasy, horror movies, but only once, unless torturing a new, innocent soul. imagining the possibilities within a topic is often more enjoyable than actually putting them into practice. but life uh, finds a way. I do so enjoy bringing out the darkest desires and doing all I can to bring them to life, to take the dream and make it as real and safe as possible. So to discuss the strange, the esoteric, that which has no answer is always a topic I shall enjoy exploring. A little while ago I had a discussion about how centaurs are insects since they have six limbs.. (they are not invertebrates, so no, they are not, but there were several almost fitting possibilities, depending on how far out we got.)

In my partners, I seek a strong-willed, outspoken, unhesitating woman, this has become very important, to be able to truly trust that they are not just going through the motions, or agreeing, and will communicate if there is an issue, both in play or in partnership, has been something that has been missing, leading to a lack of lifting up of both play and relationship experiences.

Being Polyamorous is non-negotioble, my last few partners have been on board! In theory! But not to participate! or be my wing woman! or even have a perve with me anymore! Or want me to anymore! Over the first year or so.. id like to meet someone who actually enjoys it and shows it before I ever make a decision to partner up.

I am open about most things as my main fetish is leaving my partner a smiling, worn out, sweaty, delirious mess, leaving a lasting impression and making sure everybody has enjoyed themselves thoroughly, whether that be through good old fashioned fucking, BDSM activities or roller coasters, if my partner wants to make it happen, I will do my very best to fulfil all wishes with research, ination and patience if need be. This also led me to my realisation of being Polyamorous, as I have an interest in a great many styles of play and people, but most tend to have only one thing that works for them, so at the very least, I seek to play with others, that can often evolve to more so.. there we go, I am solo Poly at the moment...

**These used to be my words here** If your thing is pain, and over time wish to increase your tolerance or to indulge in pure, unfettered masochism, sad as it may be to say, that while we could occasionally have much fun, youre probably looking for someone else. **I feel it should stay, for context.**

Lately, my sadistic nature is coming back to life with a wicked grin, whispering in my ear, my mind bristling with excitement, muscles flexing with anticipation, I had thought i was becoming more caring in my relationships, now realising that it always seems to be my partners enjoying it less that saps my enjoyment, perhaps the beast merely needs a good supply of food to thrive, I am keen to find out. *Note While I was first editing this section, I had a vague idea, then, a few hours later, on my feed, was a post about the sadism requiring consent to be fun, It was almost like reading my own mind.. though I have to add that as well as depending on consent, it requires for me, enjoyment (see my main fetish).

I am generally quiet, watching, learning, and unless you specifically try to push my buttons, you will find me very slow to anger, this has come in handy when dealing with brats and is most likely why I appreciate anyone that speaks their mind be it good or bad at the drop of a hat, to see their thoughts and feelings on the surface is wonderous and almost alien to me, I love it.

Everybody has their limits though, and I will push back and stand my ground, long before anything resembling anger surfaces. I call it as I see it, and I am quite blunt about it, can come off as confrontational though it is often unintentional.

I am still learning what I need and who Im looking for, so who knows? get chatting, see where it takes us.

if there is more you may wish to know, feel free to ask, poke, prod, and generally be adorably annoying about it. most of all, I am happy to be here, to learn, grow and hopefully help others find themselves. there is no point trying to be something you are not.