11/6/2011 3:03:29 PM: My journal tends to be a place that I vent about my frustrations. I recognize that the BDSM community is made up of many wonderful and varied people with a wide variety of interests. What appeals to one of us may be distasteful to others. I get it. However, guys, is it really necessary to act like ignorant, disrespectful morons when you contact people?   There are several woman, most of them subs or slaves, that I chat with. I continue to be amazed by the number of men who contact them with nothing more to say then 'You are my cunt and will do what I want.'   I'm not the most creative guy out there but please stop treating the women here like that. If you are able to develop a bdsm relationship with a women and she becomes your cunt to use as you see fit, very cool! But please wait until that happens!   Vent complete!

3/24/2011 9:24:44 AM: Although I continue to be frustrated by the number of fakes on this site and others, I have had the good fortune to meet with a few wonderful people. Some of them have been involved in bdsm for a long time and one was a complete newbie. While I normally don't get to excited about people who are brand new to bdsm, this wondersful soul was so open about her desires and was extraordinarily open-minded. Hopefully, I will continue to find such great people to share part of my life with.

1/5/2011 10:23:28 PM: Having been involved in BDSM for over twenty years, I have had the opportunity to meet many wonderful people. I have always been amazed at the amount of warmth and friendship that people in this lifestyle are willing to share. Perhaps it is our willingness to accept people for who they are that makes this possible. Having said that, I have become increasingly frustrated with the number of people here and on other websites that pretend to be something they are not. I cannot imagine how terrible it must be to never be able to be honest with others about who and what you are...to keep that inside and not be able to share yourself with others. It is tragic. I know this is a bit of a rant but for those of you who are afraid to be what you really feel you are, find someone in your life to trust and bare your soul. You will be amazed at the feeling you will have. Be well!