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I am not seeking anything too extreme, just a single female who believes in traditional household roles and embraces male dominance and the concept of being owned. To be owned does not have to imply something worthless or derogatory. It can be something you love or cherish. Something so unique and special that simply being in its presence is not enough. You have an undying need to possess it, to make it yours and yours only. To lock it away and keep it safe, like a sacred talisman or the rarest jewel. To ogle or marvel at it. An owned woman should appreciate that energy, the power it holds. It should be self-perpetuating. The need and the surrender to it.

I have been in this scene for a while now, in various incarnations. Always dominant, but my experiences have been wide-ranging in scope, from light to heavy on the spectrum. There is a very short list of things I have not done. I have been with pain sluts, service slaves, rope bunnies, extremists, single subs, multiple subs, couples and fetishists of all stripes and flavors. I wont go into salacious detail here (unless you are interested, questions welcome), but typically my only limits have been those of my partner. Kinks, fantasies, turn-ons and turn-offs are not paramount. No matter what space you occupy in the world of BDSM I am confident we can find some common ground.

But after all that, and in some sense maybe because of all that, at this point of my life I am looking for something far more simple, more primal and uncomplicated. I seek a single submissive woman who is looking to take part and assume her role in a traditional household and long term relationship. She should above all, be kind and enthusiastically giving, self-sacrificing, deferential and obedient. Someone who is a natural caregiver, who takes pleasure in taking care of others and pleasing others, with pride and a sense of duty some women just have that in their blood. It is the antidote to tiger blood, or testosterone perhaps. This is what I need. Physically I would prefer someone HWP, reasonably attractive 20-48 and if not local, willing to consider re

I am a professional WM, HWP, disease free, unassuming, attractive, fairly conservative looking, gainfully employed, easy to talk to and get along with and have a wide variety of everyday interests, some traditional, some more eclectic. We share a few I am sure. I am open-minded about most things. I suppose I am religious but not churchgoing or denominational, more on a personal level.

I would be interested in talking with any females who are looking for something similar. I am not hung up on all the protocol and salutations or proper BDSM capitalization or any of that right now, so at ease soldier. Questions are OK, In the meantime here are some questions AND answers of my own, from me

Is this a vanilla ad?

Well, no. I think there are enough true BDSM remnants sprinkled in this text to terrify your typical Match user, 50 Shades or no.

Are you looking for sessions or online only?

Definitely not.

We are a couple and my wife and I...

Thanks but no.

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