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Hi
Started playing in 1993. Since then my love for heavy bondage, especially leather bondage, has grown and expanded to other s of play. I really took a liking to anal play. In 1998, she talked me into anal stretching for the first time, and turned out really loving it. Since then Ive been so hooked she made me her anal slut. This includes doing enemas, fisting, strapons, and pegging.
I was lucky over the years to have my travel for work bring me to San Francisco, and couldnt resist some shopping sprees so I have managed to accumulate a good toy collection over the years.
Of all things over the years that i took to the most, was anal play. At first i was against it, but got talked into trying small things. Since that time I have taken a quite a liking to anal stretching to large sizes, gaping, and other s of anal play that stretching allows you to do.
After over 20 years of training and play as a submissive, my now retired mistress has finally encouraged me to switch so I could pass along what she has taken lots of time to teach me so I can pass it on to others. Shes been a professional dom for almost 40 years now when she decided to retire.
The thing she instilled upon me the most, is to be able get a sub to trust you, you must be respectful of what the sub wants to do and be very attentive of how the scene is progressing and how the sub is handling it. And if something doesnt seem right, to stop regardless.
The other thing I do with the first few sessions, is no gags. Thats not negotiable. Yes always have a safeword, but also when I first start with someone new, no, stop, quit, enough.... and so on are also ways to stop a scene. I also am open to someone else of your choosing being present as well.
She never forced anything new upon me, but had the knack to talk about it and explain it, and ultimately get me to ask to try it. Nothing ever got done that I didnt want to happen, and would never force that upon someone else. And as a result, in the 20 years, we never had a bad session. We did manage to try things over time that I never thought imaginable and turned out to add to a fantastic BDSM journey.
My hobbies outside of kink includes travel, watching movies, cooking, outdoor activities including camping, and kayaking. I also enjoy reading non-fiction, fiction, mathematical, and academic essays.
My hobbies inside of kink includes heavy leather bondage and lots of anal play. I have a moderate to extensive collection of different toys that I enjoy using in play. I got talked into trying anal play 20 years ago now... and over time she talked me into upping the size. Now were up to almost 3 inches and we would spend lots of time just stretching. So if anyone is into stretching play, Im game. I also have an interesting boot fetish... but thats a long story.
I have a growing interest to meet friends in the area through fetlife and other area events. Also travel frequently down to DC and in other areas in the US and on occasion welcome the opportunity to meet other like minded kinksters.
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