Hi! Im looking around, and Im not on any timeline. I enjoy talking to people and learning about them whether or not it might lead to an in-person meeting. Thats just fair warning to you on my intentions. I dont want to waste anyones time. If the right man should come along Id be open to getting to know each other a little better, but thats not a pressing need at the moment. I do have a few years of limited experience. Im cute, on the chunky side, and Ive been told Im an interesting person with whom to converse. Im not into mean dominants. I prefer ones who are firm, fair, and caring. Men who have a personality beyond just discipline are tough to find and especially welcome. I do have a leaning toward the daddy types. If Im being truthful, I can be a bit of a brat at times. I understand that must be dealt with when it occurs. I have found I am much more willing and able to do my best when I feel secure and cared for in the relationship. Adversarial situations seem to bring out the worst in me. I dont function well when I must walk on eggshells for fear of offending. I like a certain amount of freedom to speak and express opinions. Knowing the final say on any given issue wont be mine, its still important to me that I have freedom to volunteer input. I appreciate gentle honesty at all times, and I do my best to reciprocate in kind. When (if) the time comes, Ill be wanting a long term thing that does have some strings, but not anything full time 247. If youve stuck with me this far, youre in the 45 to 56 age range, and youre in the North Charlotte area, maybe youd be interested in saying hello )