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Profile Last Changed
Sunday, August 05, 2018
This profile is a work in progress. I continue to update it as I learn more about myself. To that end, and to make it easier for others to know that my profile has changed and not waste their time, I will now be listing the date of the most recent change immediately above this paragraph. Because profiles are now reviewed after being edited and thus are temporarily unavailable, please be assured that if my profile is inaccessible, it is because I have edited it or because I have taken it down out of deference to having met someone I am very interested in and with whom I want to show respect for by not engaging with others while we see if we have any long-term potential, and that take-down may or may not be permanent. As such, in order not to waste your time, I will not be messaging anyone immediately after an edit and until I know that my profile is visible again.
Please excuse any seeming lack of proper punctuation - even though this is a mostly free service, users should not have to wrestle with escape characters so that their profile information displays correctly and as they intended...
About me
I know my place... on my knees at your feet.
Hello, and thank you for looking at my profile.
This is a serious search on my part. I am devoting the same kind of effort to it as I would to anything else in life that is very important to me. Should you send me a note, I will always respond. Please be aware that I am often totally disconnected for a couple of days at a time.
I am clean, discreet, drug- and disease-free, a non-smoker (although smokers do not bother me), a very light social drinker, in fairly good shape, an autodidact with a broad range of interests, both intellectual and physical, up until recently I have always been professionally employed, and am very presentable.... you could take me to the most formal of black-tie events without fear of me embarrassing you. I am divorced with no children, free to travel -- mostly on weekends at this point -- and to relocate if that becomes appropriate.
I have known that I am submissive in my private life since I was in my mid-twenties, but what I did not realize until much later was that it is a deep psychological NEED and not some part-time play fantasy because of that, I fought it for years and ruined a couple of relationships that I was in, but I have come to accept and even embrace it as being who and what I am. And I now know that what I NEED is a FLR. I have also learned that I could never be completely happy in a purely vanilla relationship just as I could never be completely happy in a BDSM-Ds relationship that did not include some aspects of a traditional romantic relationship such as affection. For what it is worth, I was always too insecure (cowardly)) to tell my former wife about my being submissive, although I honestly think that it was well hidden and that she did not know.
By my private life I mean my non-public, non-vanilla life in my public, vanilla life, I am always respectful of women, but am otherwise quite assertive. I deliberately do not have an identifiable profile picture for reasons of professional discreetness, which I know is an immediate disqualification for many, but so be it... I have been used in public, both at fetish clubs and at private parties, and I understand and accept that when I find the one (or should I say when she finds me), she will have discretion over what discretion I am allowed to exercise. Note that there is no contradiction between my being very discreet and having been used in public while I am a very private person and do have a need for some level of discreetness, I am mentioning my being discreet to mean that you do not need to worry about me violating your privacy.
I will be glad to answer any questions that you might have...
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