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happypervert
Hetero Male, 68, Scranton, Pennsylvania 
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happypervert

I'm well educated, well traveled, and good natured with an irreverent sense of humor. I'm open-minded, patient and tolerant except when it comes to smoking. I keep in pretty good shape by cycling when the weather is warm and x-c skiing when there is snow. Also, I'm not married.

A woman with a nice smile and wit is sure to attract me; you'll hold my interest by having the smarts or refinement to discuss world affairs, the arts, science, or other topics to stimulate the mind. Laughter is essential; a good "playmate" highly prized. I'm far more interested in your personality than I am in a kinky resume.

Regarding interests related to this site -- I like a woman who obeys outside of the bedroom as well as in it. I'll put a bit of structure in your life that you follow for me every day, and I'll also enjoy playing with control in subtle ways that could go unnoticed by anyone but us, or in obvious ways like tying you in ropes just to see the look in your eyes as I do "stuff" you like and maybe some things you don't. Though I usually don't get my pleasure from giving pain, I'll go in that direction if you like it; however I'll go there sometimes too if you don't like it just as an exercise in control and to see you submit to it.

Keep in mind that I want a gal with a mind of her own, and I will learn what makes you tick to make you mine -- I know that your submission is a gradual process, so my job is to find out which bits you are holding back and then "help" you to surrender. Although I like having control, I don't use it in ways that could inhibit your personality and I'm not a micro-manager -- I only make rules to accomplish objectives and not simply to have rules for their own sake.

 

You might call it a light touch, kind of like driving a car down the freeway with just one finger on the steering wheel . . . though if you act up both hands are ready to drag you back in line. So most of the time the influence is there but you hardly notice and you can be yourself knowing I far prefer initiative, strength, spark, spunk, and surprises instead of having meek, docile and robot-like obedience. That makes it so much more enjoyable when I decide to really take command and have fun with you, and it will be fun because although I present this refined exterior to casual observers I can also be a real pig when I've got you under my thumb.

So there is a bit about me to start with; feel free to send a note if you would like to talk.

5/9/2010 3:07:54 PM: Is This Really So Complicated? Are D/s relationships all that different from vanilla relationships? Sure, one person is the boss, but a lot of relationships have one person in charge and they don't muddle things by worrying about being part of 'the lifestyle'. Back in the 1950s the male dominated household was the norm, and a lot of folks who still talk about having a 'traditional' relationship mean exactly that. So D/s relationships are really no big deal and differ only by being explicit about the power exchange, and it doesn't become special just because you add some kinky sex on top of it.So when I scroll through profiles of submissives who are looking for training or to learn from a master, I really wonder where they get such stupid ideas. If you go on a vanilla dating site you never see a girl looking for a boyfriend to teach her, so why is it so different here? The only explanation I can come up with is that a lot of people here are mostly thinking with their crotches and they simply can't separate fantasy from reality -- typical examples are the girls who make it sound like they are looking for Prince Charming, then post nothing but pics of their tits or black and blue asses as if that's way one would normally go about attracting a classy guy for a serious relationship. Duh!It gets even more ridiculous when the dominants who present themselves as fonts of such great knowledge don't seem qualified to train a dog let alone a human, so this looks like the blind leading the blind to me. Hell, I have two masters degrees, so am I supposed to teach a girl about databases or accounting? I've got better things to do, so if a girl wants to learn something she should take a class at community college.Anyway, the point of this little rant is that I think about 3/4 of the folks here are out of their fucking minds -- instead of behaving like they would in any other relationship they act like they've entered some secret society with completely different rules from the rest of the world, and it seems they're trying to conform to some goofy stereotypes they learned in chat rooms. I suppose I stick around because the 'normal' 1/4 of the folks are worthwhile, and the rest are entertaining in a freak show kinda way.

12/24/2008 9:54:34 PM: Christmas MusicI'm watching a Ray Charles gospel christmas show and it is huge fun -- he is accompanied by a band and a choir of about 50 dressed in dashikis. I far prefer stuff like this or the blues or cajun xmas CDs I have to the solemn traditional tunes we usually hear this time of year. Even when Ray did a traditional tune like Silent Night, his presentation is waaaaay more entertaining than anything I've heard before.  I've got no idea when this was taped -- he died in 2004 so it was before that, but who cares -- this is timeless good stuff.

6/11/2008 8:49:43 AM: “When you see your wife commit an offense, do not rush at her with insults and violent blows: rather, first correct the wrong lovingly and pleasantly, and sweetly teach her not to do it again... and if this doesn't work, take up a stick and beat her soundly.”Friar Cherubino Da Siena: Rules of Marriage (1489)I copied this from someone else's journal; my compliments to her for finding it!

5/29/2008 5:42:30 AM: I'm worried that the next time I read a profile mentioning the "gift of submission", that I just might gouge out my eyes.

2/13/2008 1:00:12 PM: A New Twist on Breath PlayNext month I'm taking a girl to a Caribbean island and we're going to get kinky. I'm going to shove the snorkel in her mouth and make her swim around with her face in the water looking at colorful corals and fishies while breathing only through that flimsy plastic tube.Am I hard core and edgy or what?

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