4/20/2018 4:48:48 AM: I am becoming increasingly convinced that men on this site are partially illiterate.  I say 'partially' because, unless they are using dictation to type their emails, they do have the ability to write.  Granted, the emails are mostly 'you're hot' and 'you should be my slave' or, not realizing how pedophilic their letters sound, asking about how whether my UNDERAGE daughters could serve them as well (for those e-mails, please provide a phone number and/or address so I can report you to the nearest police department for suspected charges of statutory rape).But, they are partially illiterate because they don't appear to be able to read my posts.  I have had numerous male halves of 'couples' (I put that in quotes because I HIGHLY doubt there is a female half) ask if I wish to serve them.  None of them appear to have read #8 of my suggestions where I clearly stated that I am highly suspicious of the male asking on behalf of their female counterpart because I doubt she even exists.  And they wonder why us females ignore 99% of them on this site.Thankfully, the real women here do read and I am having some lovely conversations with them, both sub and Domme alike.  They are intelligent, fun, lovely, erotic and gives me reason to return.To quote Queen B, who runs the world?  Girls!

4/1/2018 4:46:02 AM: I know I'm not the only woman on here with these tips/suggestions but might as well spell them out.'Tips for Not Getting Yourself Auto-Ignored':1). Say something more than 'Hi' in your initial e-mail.  This is your chance to make a first impression and brief one liners are lazy, form letterish and don't tell me why I should answer you.2). Have some detail in your profile.  I'm not saying it has to be 5 pages long (there are some profiles that are SOOOO long, I get exhausted looking at it) but something more than just 2 sentences.  The ultra brief ones smack of being fake and have zero credibility (Note -- 'more will be added later' as your sole profile has the same effect)3).  Have a photo that isn't obviously fake.  There are such fake/obvious porn photos on here that, the moment I see it, I don't care what the person says.  They are ignored.4).  Don't try to auto-add me to Friends or go into chat before contacting me the first time.  Once again, it smacks of being a fake and desperate.5).  Don't start your first e-mail with demanding that I serve you.   I just met you and don't know you.  Think about how you would approach me in a bar.  Would you walk up to me in a bar and say 'I want you on your knees now with panties off'?  Approach me with intelligence and respect.6).  Don't demand photos of me and my daughters immediately, especially when you have none on your profile.  I love my girls and, because of the predators here, will NOT send out photos of them until I feel more comfortable with you.  And I will be the one to determine that moment, NOT you.  As far as me, I have provided photos of myself and, demanding more, makes me think you are nothing more than a pic collector.7).  I will admit that, ideally, I am seeking an in-person relationship, not just online.  Online is too ephemeral and people come and go too easily.  I would prefer something in person to make it real.  It's also nowhere near as satisfying serving online because it's tough to make sure the other person is obeying.  That doesn't mean I won't want to chat (I have chatted with many people in England who have been charming and fascinating in their backgrounds) but realize that it will be much more difficult for me to relocate than it would be if you were just a few miles away.8).  Being the male half of a couple and claiming that you are simply screening for your female partner.  Don't insult my intelligence.  That is such an obvious fake entry and I MIGHT fall for it for one e-mail but it's clear that either she doesn't exist or you are simply cheating on her.  I have no problem chatting with a couple but play it smart and bring her into the conversation and let me chat with her right away.  I think that's enough for now but I leave room open to add more tips as I think of them.

10/17/2017 6:14:08 AM: Saw 'Professor Marsten and the Wonder Women' yesterday which told the story of the creator of Wonder Woman.  Very good movie and highly erotic with it's emphasis on how BDSM influenced the comic book.  I particularly loved the scene of the young girl being tied up.MMMMMMMMMMMMMM <grin>

10/10/2017 1:28:19 PM: I know this site is free and all but the way it's maintained makes 'free' being overpriced.  I am trying to reply to people but, whenever I hit send, it confuses it with 'log out' and fails to send.  YEESHHH!!!

8/2/2017 4:13:05 AM: Would love to hear from other mothers as to how they handle the lifestyle with kids around.  It is definitely a challenge and I would love to hear how others with teenagers do it.