I am in a mostly vanilla marriage, looking for a female submissive for occasional sessions.  She should be mature minded and feminine.  This is not to mean jeans and a t-shirt are unacceptable.  It means she will take some pride in her appearance.  Nice nails and minimal makeup are a plus.  Personal hygiene will be important to her.  She should enjoy giving up control as much as I like it given to me.   I'm not looking to micromanage her entire day, however I do like daily or nearly daily dialogue.   She could be part of a sub couple or cuck couple.  I am not in any way bi however.  Not interested in childish games.   Discretion expected and assured.  I'm looking for something long term, but not 24/7 obviously.  I believe a D/s relationship is one of symbiosis.  A submissive should never feel worthless; quite the contrary.  

Some interests include:

Clothing and appearance requirements at times

Mild bondage

Spanking

Creative discipline

Gentle anal activities

Exams/inspections

Privacy deprivation

Medical type scenes

Pleasure and worship

Definitely not into:

Minors

Scat

Extreme pain

Permanent Marks (scars from whipping, etc)

I cannot begin to list everything here.  Let's talk and explore each others' minds....