Now, this is really quite simple. I'm looking for a female to have as a slave, to be in a TPE, M/s, O/p relationship with - whatever one wants to call it; it's all really just quite uninteresting nuances of taxonomy, and the important thing to have in common is a desire to be in some such relationship.

But on the other hand it is also rather quite complicated, isn't it? Being Owner and slave can after all be a relationship that takes many forms - from the loving, caring and cherishing, to the most extreme forms.

Or the kind without love, yet still not the most extreme, just blissful Ownership and servitude.

I realize of course that to a lot of people this might sound as if I'm willing to take whatever I can in order to get some free daily sex. But no, I'm certainly not that simple. It's just that to me there is a sliding scale of types of relationships of this kind, where to me all points on that scale have their own things going for them, each being desirable in their own way, while realizing that there are points along that scale that are mutually exclusive of each other.

So you could be my gimp, my 1950s housewife, my little girl, my slave wife, my cohabitant slave just because our need fits each others, something completely different or some combination of these things. Always my slave though; not necessarily in name however, but certainly in essence.

So why not talk about it, see if our desires our compatible enough to take it further?

Only real time, no online relationships.

My BDSM interests can be found in the usual place (down below for those of you who might have missed that particular feature). Still, how much can actually be gleaned from such a list? I mean, any particular fetish might mean something completely different to you and me, might it not? And furthermore, any specific kink might also be enjoyed in different ways or settings. And so on.

My vanilla interests? Well, they are plentiful, but do they really matter to you?

If so, ask and I'll be more than happy to talk about them, as well as yours of course.

Still, perhaps a few words about myself is in order. At least insofar as telling you that I am the kind of person who 99 times out of 100 prefer sitting at home with a book (of almost any kind) rather than going out to a club or a party. Been there, dove that, got the t-shirt so to speak.

I'm Kristoffer by the way, and I will probably find it non-serious, if not downright pathetic if you start off by calling me Sir or Master or some such until we have established that we are both interested in establishing this kind of relationship with each other. Unless you express some well thought-out reason for doing so of course.