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So..what makes a great Dom? First and foremost He has an incredible bond and respect for His sub. she is His prized possession. His eyes light up when she walks into the room and He takes great pride in her successes. After all, He helped to create her. she holds the most tender part of His heart and has the greatest power to hurt Him. Seeing her hurt, unless it is from His hands, however is not something a true Dom wants. He sees it as His job to protect Her, both from the outside world and herself. He may love to cause her great pain in a scene, but He hates to be the one to hurt her emotionally. It hurts Him to have to punish her , but he knows it is sometimes necessary. This takes great strength on His part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to His needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all He wants to do is hold her safe in his arms. And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined.

A TRUE Dom knows the value of discipline, though at times His soft heart gets the best of Him. He knows that in order for His little girl to be the best she can possibly be he must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and his knowledge of her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises. He knows this hurts her, and that tears at His heart, but He also knows it is for her own good. A Dom provides something else that is very important to His submissive..acceptance!

In order for his submissive to truly be herself with her Dom, its vital that she find the One that she trusts completely and without hesitation. This trust starts from first contact and built to a incredible level of total comfort. Her trust must be unwavering and is a necessity before the relationship can be fulfilling for B/both. A girl's submission and trust is her gift to her Master, a gift that must never be tarnished or taken advantage of by her Master. her Master is unwavering and consistent, which allows you to trust without hesitation. you know you've found the One meant for you when you can say and honestly feel as though there is nothing that your Master would ask, that you'd not do. Communication is a gift that a girl gives her Master at all times.

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Synfullyblond
 
 Age: 37
 Auckland, New Zealand