Collarspace

About me
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About me is so non-specific, so Ive taken the liberty of breaking relevant information about me and my interests into sections. Yes, its long. Yes, Ill be adding more.

Who I Am
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I am a single, highly successful business professional, Ds lifestyle Dominant,and BDSM Top, who is ultra fit, intelligent, and confident with a dark side. My primary interests are The Arts, Intellectual Discourse, Fitness, Ds, Movies, Literature, Photography, Bondage, Philosophy, Scuba, Religions, Cooking, OTK (king), Music, Amusement Parks (especially Roller Coasters), Technology, and Travel (Domestic and International). My secondary interests are unlimited.

Have I Seen You Before?
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Possibly. Due to various business interests, I am somewhat well-known.

Why I Am Here
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I am on CollarSpace because I have an excess of vanilla friends, as it is. Whether they are closed-minded or unable to embrace their dark side, I find myself unable to discuss many things that are of interest or importance with them. Since deviants do not give off a blue glow or wear an official club ring that is easily visible in public, I am here, in the midst of cyberspace, hoping to expand my circle of sincere, honest, and trustworthy non-vanilla friends, regardless of geography. I do not care if you are female or male, involved or single, straight or bi or gay. I do care that you value honor and friendship, and shall not betray either.

If along the way, I meet a compatible female partner for a relationship, then that is icing on the cake - and I do like icing.

I am in Columbus Ohio because my teleporter has ceased to function, and I am waiting for parts from a courier from my home planet of Zorkon. He should have been here a few light years ago, but he always gets lost and has to stop on the all female planet of Sheza. God forbid he would ask for directions. Typical man.

What Makes Me Smile
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Kindness - Life can be quite cruel, especially to those in disadvantanged situations - a small gesture can make a large positive impact.

Honesty - Im a big boy. I can handle the truth, and much prefer it.
Intelligence - Im not a rocket scientist, nor do you need to be one, but if you are, Ive got a million questions for you.

Sense of Humor - Life is too short to not smile and laugh with great frequency. And if you have the gift to make others laugh, use it.

What Makes Me Frown
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Lies, Deceit, and Deception - If I cant believe you, how can I trust you?

Bigotry - I have zero tolerance for any type of prejudices. Isnt the world difficult enough as is?

Egotism - I am not God, and neither are you. Get over yourself.
Sloth - Feel free to sit on your duff and watch the world pass you by, but I wont be joining you.

What Makes Me Shake My Head In Disgust
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People that use Ds as a ruse to obtain BDSM from someone.
People that use BDSM as a ruse to obtain sex from someone.
People that have an all or nothing attitude.
People that abstain from voting or vote a straight party ticket. If you do either, do not complain about the idiots in office.
People that contact me, yet have no interest in platonic friendship, as that is the main reason for my profile. Certainly, I am open to a dynamic beyond a platonic friendship however, I would never consider that with a complete stranger. Why would you?

My Favorite Poem
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Sonnets from the Portuguese
Sonnet 1 (Excerpted) - Elizabeth Barret Browning

I was ware, so weeping, how a mystic shape did move behind me, and drew me backward by the hair. A voice said in mastery while I strove, Guess now who holds thee? Death, I said, but there the silver answer rang, Not Death, but Love.

My Favorite Quotes
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Nicolo Machiavelli

He who wishes to be obeyed must know how to command.

Im not interested in preserving the status quo I want to overthrow it.

Refined Bastard

I do not march to the beat of a different drummer -- for I am the conductor.

My Favorite Lyrics
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The Phantom of the OperaThe Music of the Night (Excerpted) - The Phantom

Night-time sharpens, heightens each sensation...
Darkness stirs and wakes imagination...
Silently the senses abandon their defenses...
Slowly, gently night unfurls its splendor...
Grasp it, sense it - tremulous and tender...
Turn your face away from the garish light of day, turn your thoughts away from cold, unfeeling light - and listen to the music of the night...

Close your eyes and surrender to your darkest dreams!
Purge your thoughts of the life you knew before!
Close your eyes, let your spirit start to soar!
And youll live as youve never lived before...
Softly, deftly, music shall surround you...
Feel it, hear it, closing in around you...
Open up your mind, let your fantasies unwind, in this darkness which you know you cannot fight - the darkness of the music of the night...

Let your mind start a journey through a strange new world!
Leave all thoughts of the world you knew before!
Let your soul take you where you long to be!
Only then can you belong to me...
Floating, falling, sweet intoxication!
Touch me, trust me, savor each sensation!
Let the dream begin, let your darker side give in to the power of the music that I write - the power of the music of the night...