Who am I?  I like to think that I'm funny in a very dry way which unfortunately doesn't transmit well in the written word, smart, a Socialist, I sometimes put my arms out, twirl my fingers, and make airplane sounds, I can be very serious, I like to think I'm relatively sane. 

What I'm not looking for is a doormat.  I hope I don't sound too judgmental about that but I want a woman who knows who she is and who is strong enough to start down this road.  I'm not looking for a woman who wants to be hurt.  Why would I want to mark or possibly injure my most prized possession?  I'm not looking for a woman who wants to be used by me and the neighborhood.  I would not share my most prized possession.

What I'm not looking for is a woman who just wants to be locked up at home.  Who understands the difference between humiliation and degradation.  I need a woman who is comfortable with the idea of personal growth.  Who is comfortable with the idea of having something outside the home whether it's a part-time/full-time job, volunteering, or school.  Unfortunately, we can't all stay at home all day and play.  When we're done with life it would be nice to be able to say we did something deeper than "Well I was beaten and degraded for 20 years.  Does that count as using my time well?"

What am I looking for?  Believe it or not I need a woman  I could have a deep connection with.  A long term relationship.   I'm looking for something along the lines of a 50s household.  A sensual D/s relationship.  A woman who knows this is something she wants/needs.  Height and weight proportionate. She needs to be able to laugh at the world around us.

 There is a reason D/s is called a relationship.  I view it as a 50/50 partnership.  Odd I know but... what can I say.  We talk, we negotiate, we define our roles, we talk some more.  I think a way to look at this is s a leash has two ends both attached to the other.  You need both ends to understand what the rules are.

These are a few of my pet peeves so....  If we make it to chatting or phoning one another I do expect you to be able to give me your full attention as have every right to  expect me to give you my full attention.  I find it a promising sign when a woman will actually take the time to write a sentence.  It's also very nice if she can write about who she is, the things that she finds important in life.

I hope that this interests some of you!  Thanks for your time.