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Straight sub male (widower) who has been in the lifestyle for a long time. Not 24/7 but on the weekends as time allows. 

I enjoy everything bondage. I have a passion for rubber ( i have a nice collection) and plastic wrap. I love mummification bondage. I get into a wide variety of things: tease/denial, plugs, clamps, hot wax, ice, gags, hoods, cbt, medium impact play, nipple play, sensory deprivation, electro/TENS and more. All the little things that help 2 people have some kinky fun :)

I am more of an Alpha type male. I am dominant at work. I am chivalrous in person. My submission is behind closed doors to the chosen person I have decide to give up control to. 

I enjoy BDSM because it is fun. It is kinky, it is naughty and there are always new things to try. It is also a release mechanism from the stresses of my job. It is nice to give up control and not have to make decisions. 

My vanilla interests includes almost anything outdoors. Camping, hiking, kayaking and nice park/picnic :) Other vanilla interests are going to the movies. I enjoy scifi, action/adventure and horror flicks. I like eating out at nice restaurants on the weekends. I enjoy cooking. I love the beach.

I am solvent. I have nice house, car etc. I have a great job and I work hard. I enjoy life and usually have an optimistic view on things. I like to focus on the good and not the bad :) At the same time I always plan for the worst but hope for the best so I am always prepared. Life is fun, one should enjoy it.

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