I am a married bi-lady with 2 kids one grown and one 6 yr old. We are a couple that loves to live life to it's fullest. Please don't confuse us with a couple " looking to get laid". We are looking for something that's going to be a relationship or possibly a relationship. We base this on love.We feel we have enough for everyone. And we are looking for a lady whom is bi. We Got tired of everyone trying to judge us and our lifestyle. I believe that if your bi and you like both then go ahead and have both. Unfortunately, finding someone that has a open mind to this and understands that they aren't entering this as a toy, fling, or as a third wheel but more like finding a diamond in the ruff. We are looking for someone that wants to be a housewife, work part time or full time. its up to you. We are looking for someone to be an equal partner in this relationship. We don't want to " hit and quit it". Looking for a live-in situation and some one to be a part of our family and contribute. whether its a job or a housewife. If you have kids that's fine to ...so do we. ( we can accommodate a single mother as well. Joe is good with step kids...he raise one for 13 years. lol) We can be discreet as well about our relationship. If you think you can handle this please drop us a line. Bdsm- We like current kind of links I'm a switch.he likes to surprise us with different things like roleplaying, bringing 1 or 2 guys home for us that we like.he'd a gentle dom that also has experience with domestic discipline. He believes it can be used used for bettering oneself. He's a lot of fun.I like the feminine cuddling, having my hair brushed,and vica versa.