Ultimately, I am looking for a girl that has a great need for other people to like and admire her; but has a tendency to be critical of herself. I am looking for a girl that has a great deal of UNUSED capacity… POTENTIAL… which she has never been able to turn to her advantage. I am seeking a girl that while she may appear to be disciplined and self-controlled outside, she is more worrisome and insecure inside. A girl who at times has serious doubts if she has made the right decision or done the right thing, and desperately needs a mentor to guide her. I am looking for a girl that prefers a certain amount of change and variety and becomes dissatisfied when she is hemmed in by limitations. I am looking for a girl who has learned that for her it has often been unwise to reveal herself to others, but longs for THE ONE to whom she can, without fear of repercussions. I am looking for a girl with aspirations that most would consider unrealistic, but are still very real.

This is not about abuse, assault, gratuitous pain or gratuitous sex, misogyny, nor any of the games often played out as bedroom kink or online masturbation help.
Having said that, please be aware that I am VERY real, VERY sincere, and ready to change the life of THE chosen one. The issue is... you must be THE one.

I am a Euro-classical style master, trainer, mentor...which is VASTLY different from online silliness, ANY kind of roles or playing anything or even traditional BDSM. But that does NOT mean I am from Europe I am more American than apple pie.

It DOES mean that I focus intensely on the emotional, mental and psychological (as well as, of course, the physical) meaning that it is natural-order and lifestyle oriented rather than merely little-boy hot wax and cheap toys in nature.

Understand that, in MANY ways i am much more STRICT than the hordes of wanna-bees who buzz around pretending and playing games. (For example, though I have co-owned (as an investor) several dungeons nationwide, I rarely (if EVER) publicly scene ... in fact I never scene, preferring instead the one-on-one intensity of that natural order of things.

I am VERY intense and focusedand you must HUNGER for more. If that is you then we likely have a starting place.

I live part of the year in Nevada part time in South Florida part time in California, and I travel the rest (more than 200 days a year)in extended stays to places where I have business interests ... but that is why they make plane tickets for the right girl, so your current location is not an issue.

(Photos are available if we talk and I am sufficiently enticed by your message(s) to me.)

I only do fun things in life when they cease to be fun, I cease to do them I am seeking a girl who SOOOO badly wants to know that lifestyle and ready to submit to it without limita