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Service which is rendered without joy helps neither the servant nor the served. But all other pleasures and possessions pale into nothingness before service that is rendered in a spirit of joy.

- Gandhi

With trust, no explanation is necessary. Without trust no explanation is ever enough.

-Unknown

Not to be contrary, but simply to save time and effort for both of us - I will not engage in online, marriedinvolved, or long distancerelocation opportunities. I am on this site to get to know some local people after moving to a new place. And right or wrong, I firmly believe if I cant meet you, I cant possibly know you. And no, video does not count. ) If still interested, please read on!

I was introduced to the concept of Ds in my 20s, and it resonated deeply with me. I am highly submissive, but have only spent about 3-4 years in regular, active practice. (The rest of the time was spent, unused but owned by a married Dom. So again, no married or otherwise involved guys please...Ive honestly paid my dues and more on that front.) I love socializing with people in the lifestyle, as it tends to attract interesting, unusual and open-minded individuals. I enjoy intelligent, funny conversations outside the bedroom. Inside the bedroom, I greatly dislike pain but I really love to please. I have found that I am a rather accomplished maker of floggers, I enjoy blindfolds, collars, mild choking, and restrained aggression. Other than that, my real turn ons are whatever I know turns on my Dom. I deeply want to give what is asked for and even if I dont enjoy what Im asked to do, I tolerate it for as long as I can my drive is substantially derived from the need to obtain His pride and approval, not from what I do to get it.

Im a natural born submissive...but if, in your estimation, that means I am not deserving of an opinion or a brain of my own, then best of luck, but Your Dominance will never suit. Dont get me wrong...for the right Man...his desires and pleasure are my only goal, my deepest wish. I deeply feel my purpose in life is to find the man who will let me serve, please and care for him in every way I possibly can...and His appreciation and affectionate reward for such behavior is the guarantee that keeps it coming. (Doesnt that work nicely?) ) I divorced a few years ago, and moved back to the midwest after living for 10 years in Alaska. Im looking to find out more about the Ds community in the DenverBoulder area.

Im heavy set (I used to say fat, but some people get very up in arms. Whatever, you know what I mean...) I have never been considered very pretty. But, Im very kind, with a wicked sense of humor and an extremely intellectual and analytical mind...usually. I am taking medical treatments which affect my memory and focus, and sometimes I find myself feeling pretty stupid. So full disclosure, Im transiently intellectual and analytical.

I really, truly love to please and obey. Once trust is well established, I have few hard limits...but I cant honestly say where my boundaries lie with activities in which I have no experience. I am currently very gunshy about another actual relationship...and am just looking to educate myself, and make some friends...although maybe someday, for the right Dom...well, never say never...

I wish all who read this luck, and love, and a partner who fulfills the the other side of the Ds equation for them. For I truly think the very best possibility for anyone on this site is to find at least one more person who completes them, fulfills them, and allows them the magic that a truly good Ds relationship can provide. Be safe, be well.