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***Im not really feeling this site anymore. If you want to reach me, my fet profile is Beyondpain.***
Much like so many others on this site, Im a straight white cis male Dom. I know, dont all faint at once, itd beembarrassing.
Anyway, also like so many others, Im looking for someone whod like to sub for me either as play partners, or as something more. Im open to either, but definitely like something to be ongoing and potentially serious, so trust can be built and we can do the really fun stuff. Cant do the fun stuff without trust.
I also DM regularly at a local dungeon, so I am well-acquainted with lots of different kinds of play, and the safety measures that should be used therein.
The facts about me summarized
I lead a more or less vanilla life outside the bedroom
You can ask me my job if you want, but I assure you, its nothing sexy.
Ive been doing this for years, have theknow-howand tools, and enjoy putting it all to use.
I only play with folks capable of giving active consent. If you think you have no limits, then you need to re-examine your thinking, because let me assure you, you do.
Im an intersectional feminist. I may degrade and humiliate you in the context of kink, but I do so only with consent.
Im also very into toys, own a sybian among many other things, and enjoy using it.
Outside of kink I have a variety of hobbies and am big into my personal health and physical fitness.
On Fet Im BeyondPain
As for the rest well, you can ask if youre interested, but otherwise Ill save it for my autobiography.
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I decided to try making zippers today and it went really well. I'm ordering more clothespins to make all different kinds for different areas on the body and different pain tolerances.
I really love these things. |
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If I decide to message you and be polite in the way I address you, it's because I'm not your Dom and I'm cognoscent of the fact that we live in a country where you will be choosing to abdicate control to me that is otherwise lawfully yours.
I have particular views about how my own relationships should be, but until such time as I am in a relationship with someone, I'll comport myself in a way I feel is appropriate for conversations with strangers, regardless of their gender or D/s role. |
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I understand why many submissives use capitalization or lack thereof to show their relative position in their writing, but as a former English teacher, I always find myself flinching when I see a lowercase "I" used as a first person pronoun even though my Dom side isn't against it.
I haven't taught in a while, but old instincts die hard, I guess.
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Just got a Sybian today, and it's amazing. I'm really looking forward to some fun experimentation with it. |
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I've met a few people and been having some fun, but I'd be interested in finding something ongoing. I really enjoy getting to know a girl so I can tailor what I do more to her tastes, and as fun as a one-time meeting can be, it is not as deeply satisfying as something with a bit more history. |
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Oddly enough, someone earlier sent me a message quoting my profile, and implying it said I wanted someone to be a door mat. I had thought my profile was fairly clear about the fact that I don't want anyone who isn't their own person with their own interests, desires, and boundaries. I'm a little confused. |
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I've become somewhat adept at finding fake profiles I think, but there sure a lot of them.
I've been going to some kink events around, but have yet to really click with someone. I think when I was younger, I'd simply be satisfied to find someone with whom I shared a moderate attraction, but these days, I'm firmly of the opinion that being with someone, even casually, isn't like buying a car; you shouldn't settle.
This means that you need to have realistic expectations and some idea of what you want that's not totally insane, but it also means feeling okay with what it is you really want, and not just going for something that you know might end badly just because you desire it in the moment. |
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| Age: 37 |
| Stockholm,
Sweden |
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