I' m a 27 year old submissive male located in northern Orange County, CA. I'm pretty new to the BDSM scene but have loved the few experiences I have had. I have always been naturally submissive and a generally shy person. I have found that I'm a sucker for a good spanking, enjoying being humiliated, "forced feminized," bound and gagged. While, like everyone else, I have some things that I enjoy more than others, I feel that serving a Mistress and pleasing her is the most important thing. Her needs and desires are more important than mine.

I'm here primarily to learn and make like-minded friends who may (or may not) be interested in going to some of the local munches/events with me. Finding a relationship here would be a bonus. I'm shy and something of a quiet person but once I get to know someone I tend to come out of my shell. An ideal relationship for me would appear vanilla to the outside world but would have me serving a beautiful Mistress in our private life.

Being new to this all, I'll be honest, I'm rather hesitant to meet up and play with someone after just initial contact. I'd really prefer to get to know people first before we meet up.

Anyway, I look forward to meeting people here and learning more about this wonderful lifestyle.