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***I AM a White Male***
The pics you see were taken in the summer when i had a tan.
I have nothing against anyones skin color and love all humans but felt it necessary to point out because others have assumed i was of color.

Hello, I AM also known as FraterDF.

Always Evolving.

Somewhere in the middle... Its not about the pleasure or the pain. Its about the beautiful dance where two find their oneness.

I find explaining myself one of the hardest things to do. Im ever evolving. Arent we all? I dont like labels, theyre too limiting.

ME...
I consider myself an amateur photographer with a professional imagination.
While I relate to the Dom label best I suppose due to having no known lifestyle sub qualities (well maybe one )) However, I also relate to being a Sadist, Daddy, Master and Kinkster but only if my mate enjoys the exchange. The first 3 labels I have enjoyed most aspects of while the latter is obvious, isnt it? Im not into humiliation or degrading women or males for that matter, as I have too much respect for the human race as a whole. With that said that doesnt mean i cant get into inflicting pain or humiliation. I am reaction driven. I love the responses a female makes when her desires are met. I enjoy women of all shapes and sizes. Beauty comes from within, Im much more interested in your mindset then your ASSets.

My 3 favorite colors are sunset, bruised and rainbow.

I have been involved in the lifestyle for many years, most of my adult life actually. My X wife and I started swinging early on in our marriage when we were barely out of our teens. She was naturally sub so I evolved into a pleasing dom for a lack of a better phrase. I love to please, almost if not more than being pleased. I love to learn what a female wantsneeds and provide that and then some! Always respectful of limits and encouraging the broadening of ones boundaries.

WHAT TO EXPECT FROM ME...
Respect, safety and commitment are first and foremost! I am demanding and aggressive but caring and rewarding. Ive had several subs and a couple slaves over the years. I am very patient and noobie friendly yet am also very capable of micro - managing a slaves daily life. Im in no hurry to play especially with noobs. I prefer to get to know you at length through email and public encounters prior to a scene or session. I ask a lot of questions. Each one directed at learning you. I feel thats my duty as the dominant, to understand your wants and needs, likesdislikes, limits etc, just like it should be a subs desire to do the same. I consider all roles as equals, we are all human, just with different desires to feel fulfilled. Without one, there would be no use for the other.

Once I feel we are compatible and can offer eachother something then a public meet and greet will follow. If a mutual interest and respect remains then an initial inspection session will be discussed. From that point forward, everything evolves at your pace...my way.

WHAT I OFFER...
Respect, safety and commitment. (Reoccurring theme) Also...Discretion! I offer a means to an end so to speak. Every female has her deep dark desires, if youre reading this then you want to explore them. With Me, you will get that opportunity to do so with an experienced, thorough, caring and respectful man, in a safe and sane enviroment. Complete discretion is given as well as expected! I do not kiss, or rather useabuse and tell. We all have personal and professional lives. This lifestyle offers the opportunity to compartmentalize. Some, not all want and need that. I do, so I offer and provide it. A way to explore, experiment , enjoy and escape from your daily existence. What happens between us will always remain between us!

Having been around awhile I understand the need to pass on my guidance. I also understand that others may or may not want it. If we engage in convo, either online or in person, please do not feel Im trying to teach you, perhaps Im simply trying to learn you or from you. Also, do not assume that i want to fuck you either. Sex, any kind for that matter is easily obtainable, im sure you would agree.
If youve made it this far I Thank You for taking the time to get to know a little about me. Still want to know more? Read my writings, they not only give you a better idea of who i am but also my interactions with others as well... so how about something to ponder? A wise man once told me many years ago that The Sub is the one who is ultimately in control, that by choosing to submit or relinquish control, they retain it.

Random things FAQs
I keep my friends list to those who I know or want to know ) and those who I feel I can offer something too. If you feel either are appropriate then feel free to send a friend request. Accompanying messages are always welcomed but not required.

I am fortunate enough to enjoy random play partners for sex and other non sexual lifestyle activities as well as mentor and protect others. I do not feel the need to add them up in my header due to sticking with my I never kissuseabuse and tell policy. So no I wont add you either.

How big is your dick Really?? How about, big enough to be referred to as a Cock. Honestly, Ive never measured it. Its more than a mouthfull, excluding the throat (which is where I prefer it spends most its time )) fits nicely in two handfuls and snugly in all other holes.

The Deprived Forced screename is for bdsm purposes and are two of the three things I enjoy most about a womans orgasms. However, i do not let that term define my existence. Everything is threefold, so the DF has two other meanings, which are much more defining.

Yes, I am into rope only sessions for both male and female either floor or suspension. No I wont tie you up without first, either knowing you or after asking numerous questions to determine your interest and safety. Theres too many Tops and riggers today that are injuring bottoms due to the inexperience and ignorance of themselves and their partners. Bondage itself, especially rope, is inherently uncomfortable to begin with. Its not for every one and definately should not be approached lightly.

Feel free at anytime to send me a message if you have any comment, questions or concerns. You know you want too, go ahead dont be shy, you have no idea what youre missing.

Play safe. Play hard. Play smart.