7/28/2017 9:53:20 AM: For the last time. Any make that approaches me and can't take being pegged. Don't bother me. If your make and you are going to be a sissy, don't bother me. If you think for one moment I'm going to let you live under my roof and not bring in any income. DO NOT BOTHER ME! I do not give free rides. You will work, clean, and do whatever it it's I want you to do without complaint. You're a slave, a servant, and property. If you don't benefit my home, then you don't benefit me! I'm a lifestyle, not a findom, but I'm also not about to take care of a slave who can't work. Got it?

8/8/2016 11:46:58 PM: About Me I am intelligent, determined, insightful, hard working, goal oriented, and dominant. Does my dominance lay in physical strength? No, it does not. My dominance rests in my sheer strength of will. I know when to bend and when to stand firm. As the saying goes, 'Do not mistake my kindness for weakness,' or you'll get the most unpleasant surprise of your life, hun. Underneath this sweet exterior is a steel will power that no one and nothing can break. Not now, not ever.I have a desire to control, to own, to possess, to nurture, and to protect. And I will have my way. Anyways.... Who interests me: I like individuals who can make me think and can actually hold a conversation with me that goes beyond discussions on kink and sex. If I can talk to you about my day and you can likewise share yours with me, then we'll be going somewhere. Gender preference is a flexible thing, it's like the choice to put whip cream or icing on a cake. If we connect mentally and emotionally, the physical will follow sooner or later. I'm not in a rush. I'll go where I want, when I want. But I expect clear communication, hence let me be clear on this point: I am looking for my primary, my one. I may 'play' while I look for this one special flower, but never think that because we 'play' that I consider you to potentially be my one. It takes more than play to earn that place at my side. It takes more than friendship. It takes going into the darkness with me and being strong enough to stick by to show up on the other side. I will not accept less. I will not lower my standards. Be you male, female, transgender or have an orientation of bisexual, straight, lesbian, pansexual, sapiosexual,demisexual or whatever have you. My Sexuality: It is self titled. I am me. I will choose my partners as I wish. I will not be locked within some sort of proclamation of standard or modern title for my sexuality. I am me. That is all that should matter. Not what rests between my thighs, after-all, toys are a wonderful thing. I am woman. I am Ruby. Don't like it? Then don't. The world is my oyster.

11/22/2013 1:50:19 AM: While every other profile I find here complains about the lack of real people, there is another that shows determination to find that special connection. I think the phrase 'real people' is misused and it should be 'people who understand and respect the lifestyle as something more than bedroom play'. I think that is the phrase they're looking for....

1/25/2013 4:17:38 PM: How to Approach Me the Right Way I've gotten so tired of messages that look like every other message in my inbox that I've decided that I'm going to explain how to write me an appropriate introduction. *First, introduce yourself! This means that you include 'Hello, my name is.....' which is the name I'll call you by if I decide to reply. Then if there is any other information aside from what I can see on your profile then go right ahead and explain it. Note I do not mean give me a list of your kinks. I'll ask if I want to know. Or I'll use my eyes to look at your profile!  *Second, expand on your About Me section! Which means you might have said 'I'm into the outdoors' on your profile. Well, explain what that means! Note If you have done this through my first direction, good for you! You took some initiative! *Third, point out something from my profile! What I mean is, show me that you've read my profile! (including journals, pictures, ect) This shows me you've put forth the effort to try to get as much information about me as you can before you put in more time to write out a thoughtful, well written, message. Of course, you can also ask me a question about something as well, but not to get a clarification or explanation of a kink unless the purpose of your message is to ask for advice which I always give if I can. Once you have done this you have given me enough information about you to be interested enough to want to know what it is you are looking for. *Fourthly, tell me what your goals are! (i.e. what are you seeking from contacting me?) Are you seeking a play partner or are you seeking a meaningful relationship (friendship, girlfriend, ect)? This helps me reply to you in a way that saves both of us alot of time. I'll be able to see if we have anything in common and you'll be able to explain yourself in a way that I can understand you as a person as well as what it is you want. *Fifthly, please don't send multiple messages! This means, if I have not replied to your first message, don't send me a second asking me why. It is either because I'm thinking over your message before replying so as to give you a thoughtful reply or because you have failed to capture my attention so badly that I have refused to send you a reply for fear of insulting you in a way that would reflect badly on myself. So please, when you send me a first message don't send me one line and then a bunch of kinks you want to explore, don't send me a 'hey sexy', and never ever ever ever send me a message so full of grammatical and spelling errors that it makes me think you are 'special' and not in a good way. Graci for reading and I look forward to replying to your wonderfully written message! ~Ruby~ <3