My Philosophy About BDSM
Dominance and Submission are two sides of a same coin;
Like the flow and the ebb are parts of the tides,
They are like the peak and the valley of a loving wave,
Extending along the circle of life;
So, they need to each other to move along the path
of evolution.
And in similar way as a scroll needs a key to open a gate,
So a Dominant needs a Submissive, to open the gate of His
Personal realization and happiness,
and also learn what does mean receive absolute devotion, being the guard of His Sub`s will, and the administrator
of her deepest wishes, the Guard of the Treasure of Her Life,
The gardener of the flower of her heart.
Having a Dominant a Submissive partner is not His right
of birth...
It is a privilege that has to be deserved.
Being Submissive is not a duty of birth...
It is the generous gift of a Loving heart,
And in the extent a Submissive gives the treasure of Her own will,
In the same extent a Dominant has the responsibility to be the Protector
The duty to be the Guide, the obligation to be the best friend and confident...…
And the privilege to be the Teacher, the Master of His Sub.
As real Submission cannot be based on weakness
of character,
but in nobility of spirit,
in similar way Dominance can now be based in hardness nor harshness of character,
but in maturity of spirit and the intention to be a real leader,…
a Guide that teaches with His own example and not with simple words...
I OBEY My MASTER FULLY, IMMEDIATELY AND SILENTLY (except for "Yes, Sir").
I do not attempt to understand the reason behind the command it is none
of your concern.
EVERY STATEMENT OR QUESTION DIRECTED TO MY MASTER SHOULD CONTAIN "SIR" OR
"MASTER" AS HE PREFERS.
This is a sign of respect and puts what i am about to say in the proper perspective.
Stand at all times unless my Master directs me otherwise with permission to
sit/kneel. Then i sit at His feet. It might be necessary for me to kneel or lie down to perform certain duties. My Master will instruct you on this.
I SHOW BODY AND WEAR MY CHAINS AND MARKS WITH PRIDE.
My Master cares enough for to want you identified as His property. If He wants me to
bear, bare everything with or without embarrassment to Him. I'll get
over your own embarrassment.
I WILL ACCEPT MY PUNISHMENT GRATEFULLY.
I may have done nothing intentionally, yet i still need a change of attitude or bearing. Always thank your Master at the end of
these enlightening sessions.
ANY AND ALL SEXUAL MATTERS ARE EXCLUSIVELY MY MASTER'S CONCERN.
He will me what He wants and when.
Never question His judgment, if he requires something which i feel is beyond me, relax and be quiet; He may be trying to help me become a better slave by expanding my experience in this area. My sexual needs once expressed are unimportant.
FORGET WHATEVER "LIMITS" I THINK I MAY HAVE.
Those are for weekend slavery trips. My Master wants to protect His property and will do nothing to endanger it.
TAKE CARE OF YOUR HEALTH.
I am to serve, whether it is with labor or love. A sick slave is a burden to His Master.
ALWAYS MAKE MYSELF AVAILABLE TO MY MASTER.
Remember every inch of me is His and should be available to Him anytime. I don't
make Him have to reach for any part of his property.
PUBLIC EXHIBITIONS ARE UP TO MY MASTER.
There are places and situations that dragging a nude slave around by the ring
in His nose ring or cock isn't appropriate. He should decide, not you.
LOVE, HONOR AND OBEY BUT STAY OUT OF THE HAIR OF MY MASTER.
Of course he should know where you are and what you are doing at all times.
But he has more important things to do than to supervise you 24 hours a day, 7 day a week.
Now how does this square up to the needs and wants of my Master.
