Its taken me a long time to get to this site, I guess I didnt want to admit that Im a hard-core perv. Too much wasted time and disappointments have brought me here. Bondage has always been a part of every meaningful sexual relationship Ive ever had so I probably should have come to the conclusion earlier.

I dont really get into all of master stuff. Ive never needed someone to let me know I was in charge in the bedroom--usually not being the naked, bound and blindfolded one told me that! My thing is to tease and push until my partners to beg for me to do the things theyd be ashamed to ask for, or even talk about, in the light of day. I guess theres some humiliation in that but its always private. I think thats what adds to the intimacy of it.