AcquiescentHurts.

A very smart friend once told me that the online dating scene is so interesting. There is such a delicate line between tooting ones horn and yet being so transparent that it conveys an adequate portrayal of oneself, so in other words keep it simple, but provide and show enough depth to illuminate ones personality! Simple right??? Now, add to that trying to convey that you are a genuine submissive and You are trying to attract a Dominant Women, well the delicate line becomes a razor sharp tightrope!

Ive recently returned home to Scotland after my career took me abroad for several years. Now I have time to stop for a minute, reflect, refocus, recharge and try to put into perspective the things I have learnt about who I am and the world that I live in. Im slightly compulsive when it comes to observing the world and especially people watching and even in those small acts I have managed to learn more about myself.

Women are everywhere, and I can fall in love a hundred times of day, be it Her smile, the scent of Her perfume as she walks past me on the pavement, Her sense of style and fashion, the electricity in Her eye, Her sense of humour, or (normally) Her wicked and decadent taste in Shoes! Due to my education and the direction my career has taken me in, I just havent been fortunate enough to meet Her yet.....


I can be difficult, a fact I am well aware of. Im also a very private person. I am dominant stubborn Taurus in my own way and I normally have an opinion about everything - that comes from being passionate about life and the many elements that make up our lives. If you have no passion and dont care about things and arent willing to show your lovehate for things then life would be a very dull existence. I know I am not always right, but I am willing to learn and to grow and I still have an open mind to see, learn and experience every angle, view, way and voice there is.


Creativity will always by my Muse in life. Its so hard to ever imagine something else that can grasp and touch me in all the right places as much as the power of a creative flash. She comes in many guises and I worship them all. My life is brimming with Her in different flavours and varieties, but like an addiction, I am always seeking the next new hit which will sink me into a deep euphoria that will reach levels of pleasure that I cannot put into words. Art, Music, Film, Fashion, Photography, Architecture, and Design - I simply cannot get enough. What do they have to do with BDSM and my natural submission, well everything!


How we chose to represent ourselves to the outside world is by the choice of clothes we wear. There are those among us who dont care, they would rather be naked anyway for some clothes serve a practical purpose, while for others each item is chosen meticulously so as to complement the overall appearance, clothes expressing who they are and what they stand for. I am slightly obsessed with Christian Louboutin and think he is a genius. Every manwoman with a stiletto fetish should certainly be aware of this God, or they should have their fetish revoked! Perhaps his red sole could be matched with the elegant and sophisticated designs of Agent Provocateur......truly the finest lingerie available. Yes, I cannot hide my passion for fashion, or my love for feminine Women.


In photography I admire the provocative nature and for being generations ahead of the field in his imagery, the photography of Helmet Newton. For the essence and expressions and truly passionate and sensual scenes of Jack Vettriano and of course one cannot talk about art and not mention the true master artist - Namio Harukawa. Art is everywhere, and so inspiration comes from every turn of the head. Normally my head is filled with music and my taste in music is just as eclectic as the rest of my passions. I appreciate real music and I have to admit my taste is normally British. From the sadness and melancholy of Damien Rice to the unique sounds and beauty of Florence and the Machine to the more intricate sounds of Muse Biffy Clyro. The energy of Edward Sharpe and the magnetic Zeros to the Scottish twang of Frightened Rabbit and Camera Obscura to Bon Iver, Johnny Cash and everything in between.


Many layers, many passions - Art galleries, museums, polaroid cameras, travel, fine dining, Belgian Beers, fresh bread, mojitos, psychology, Cinema, Pecha Kucha nights, pub quiz, sarcasm, my iPad, lovefilm, burlesque, pin-up, cheesecake, writing, erotica, good conversation, kings etc etc.


When we look for someone, we look for the connection - Is She Dominant? Is She submissive? Is She creative? Does she exist? one day I hope for a connection of many levels, one day I hope to meet Her........


I am looking for a Dominant Woman. One who is not married nor in a relationship. Not a pro-Domme, an escort, etc. I utter honesty I am also not interested in anyone who smokes. Talk of Amazon wish-lists or any other monetary exchanges are simply going to fall on deaf ears.


I am seeking that lovely Woman who desires to be my Goddess, my Mistress, my Diva, and my Muse. She is Sharp, Creative, Intelligent, and Classy. And She is lovely in my eyes, the most beautiful Woman in existence.



She adores having her feet bathed and massaged, because She knows how beautiful her feet are in heels. She allows me to ease the tension in her back, worship and care for her, understanding that I will do anything to see her smile of happiness. She knows we do what we do not out of hate or low self-esteem. We do it from love and a natural way of being. We are sophisticated and intelligent. People who see us believe we are two who are very much in love, which we are, but we have no need to broadcast the minute details of our relationship. We trust and care about and for one another. We have set aside the struggle for power. She claims what I yield so readily. And it allows us to focus, instead, upon the majestic relationship we have between us. She respects and cherishes me as much as I her. Nothing can separate us because apart we are two separate beings, both great and sublime, but together we are magnificent.



I know You are there, as lonely for me as I am for You. One look and you can light up my life. A slight change of expression upon Your lovely face will fill me with trepidation and drop me to my knees, plummet me to the depths of submission, there to worship at your throne.



There is always more to say, there is always time to listen, and there is hope that perhaps I may find someone from this rambling of words.



So here I am Intelligent and Dominant, yet Eclectic, Artsy, kind, hardworking self-confessed nerd who enjoys a good laugh! I feel like I am living in the wrong era. Chivalry, Respect, Seduction and the chase seemed to have all become things of the past. An old fashioned gent looking for a Classy Dominant Woman.



Thank you for reading, and hopefully I will hear from You soon.



Disclosure



Although I dont actually reside in Edinburgh, I do have easy access to the capital and would happily travel if it means pleasing You and making You smile.