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MsKayNH
| Hetero Female, 51, Southern, South Carolina
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I intended to delete this profile when I moved to SC, but I am keeping it for my journal entries.
For my full current profile, go to MsKayinSC.
Best,
Ms Kay
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1/14/2018 6:57:48 AM: Slavery à la Carte? It's amusing how many men claim that they want to be 'true' slaves-- actual property-- and then proceed to describe exactly what that slavery needs to look like. If you want to truly be a slave, then the shape that slavery takes really isn't your call. Just admit that you have a fetish to be treated a certain way and be done with it -- but stop pretending it's 'slavery' if it comes with a list of expectations. (I'm not implying a slave shouldn't be able to choose an owner who's right for them... But the actual service itself should come without a list of demands as long as my arm).
11/17/2017 6:13:21 AM: What Does it Mean to be a Domme?
[or Domina, or Mistress, etc.]
~Being a Domme means I am the leader. In charge. It means I call the shots. It means I take responsibility for my sub while s/he is in my care. It means I can relax into who I really am and encourage my sub to do the same.
~It does NOT mean that I have to
-Be angry all the time-Use a strap-on, whip, or handcuffs-Be a lesbian, bi-sexual, heterosexual, or asexual-Wear leather, lace, thongs, latex, high heels or any other damn thing I don’t feel like wearing.-Avoid blowjobs or give blowjobs-Think all men are worthless worms -Have sex, love sex, hate sex, only like certain positions in sex-Want monogamy, polyamory, or to swing-Be emotionless, unfeeling, or cold
~I’m sure some of those will be true or will happen at one time or another…but they are not requirements or rules. And for some women, being a Domme (or Mistress or Domina) might mean some of those things, or none of them. Because being a Domme means I can fully and joyfully embrace who I really am, what I really enjoy, who and how I really love. No one gets to tell me that I’m not a Domme unless I do this or if I don’t do that.
~Being a Domme means I can express love and affection if that’s what I feel. It means I can have what I want. For me, it means that I care about my sub and like to enjoy non-D/s time together, too. It means that being a Domme means different things to different women – and there should be only one SHOULD when it comes to how a Domme (or Dom) makes that role their own: the sub’s safety and well-being.
~As a Domme, the single biggest responsibility and thrill is the absolute trust that a sub gives me when I bind him or take away his decisions. To fail in that trust would be a betrayal of my sub and of myself. That means that I research, I read, I try new ‘toys’ on myself first, I test, I train, and I make sure that I am worthy of the confidence I have in myself and in the trust my sub has in me.
~Ultimately, I want unconditional everything. Trust. Obedience. Vulnerability. Emotion. Certainly that takes time. But in return, I will give my sub my absolute focus and pleasure and joy and appreciation. I want that for both of us.~Ms Kay
9/29/2017 10:58:25 AM: Kiss My AssI dedicate this journal entry to ass worship, ass licking, ass loving. That delicious feeling of having my sub defy all the rules he learned growing up - that it’s dirty, nasty, wrong – feeling him defy all that to worship my ass with his mouth, tongue, nose, face.
It’s so good. It’s a feeling of decadence, of power, of pleasure.
Mmmm.
So yeah...kiss my ass ;-)~Ms Kay
7/31/2015 8:21:31 AM: . Small Moments #10 .
I spent the weekend with my sub-in-training. I tied a rope around his balls and used it as a leash to pull him to me and ordered him to lick my pussy. He’s an exceptional pussy licker…but I enjoy taunting him verbally and by tugging on the ball leash as his mouth works at me.He sucks, licks, feeds at my pussy. He takes his time. Bit by bit I forget the leash in my hand as the tension builds in me, as the suspense of orgasm builds in me. Finally, I go over, and in my spasm, I clutch and yank at the leash…and my orgasm is made all the more pleasurable as I hear his cries of pain....And he never stops licking.
~Ms Kay
3/26/2015 4:38:32 PM: ....Yes. The 'Pegged to Orgasm' story is a real story. It really happened -- with someone I met on here, no less. ~Ms Kay
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