Hello there, 

 I am looking for the one, one who is in balance, one who will want me for who I am, 

All I can say is we will smile during the process..

Time to write some more, So who am I, I am 53 years old, been in the lifestyle for about 10 years, and loved every minute of it....  I have been taught by the best.....  have some very interesting skills....  Enjoying CBT is one of them....

I understand there are many subs for each Domme, and the Domme can pick whoever she likes... We will  meet when the time is right and at the time we are supposed to.

 I am Educated, well travelled have a good job, have a vanilla life, but for many years knew there was something missing.

One day I went on a management course at which, we had to write our own obituary, A frightening task...  Try it it will make you look deep into yourself...


So thats what got me here.. What I am looking for is to have a mistress, who truly loves to humiliate, abuse and enjoy her submissive, She does not ask,  just take....

I have found that whenever the Mistress is truly enjoying herself, then so am I.....  This is not about me, it is about you...   My pleasure is seeing that look in your eye, the one that shows your intense pleasure...


There is not much i have ever been asked to do that I have not done willingly....