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plumpmistress
| Hetero Female, 45, Atlanta, Georgia
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Lusciously built mocha brown Dominant. I am 5ft5-5ft11 depending on the shoes and am a very curvy 40H-38-51 body. There are no Barbies here. But I am looking for a Ken Doll type.
To update I am currently married, and in an ENM with my husband and he knows what I am doing and knows who I am doing it with. If this weirds you out or you are not comfortable with this dynamic, so be it. I will not waste your time.
Inside of BDSM, my tastes range from sensual domination primarily. What I find is that I am not in any way interested in toilet scenes and heavy humiliation. I don't cater to fetishes as it isn't your fetish that makes this interesting to me and after a while, someone who is focused on a very specific fetish will bore me.
I am physically attracted to and interested in white males, who are from 25-55 or so, tall (5ft10 or taller), and attractive . I when I say attractive I mean Lean to Muscular, nice features, and so forth. I tend to like runners and swimmers, and bodybuilder types are tasty to dominate. Professional, freaky, and clean cut looking is a must. Read: I like hetro cismen.
It should be shame to keep you chaste as it makes the teasing more sweet and sour.
I am also interested in a submissive who is very motivated by sexual and sensual interaction as I am a very sexual and sensual person. I can tease you but you need to be able to put out occasionally otherwise it wouldn't work for Me. I have a special place in my heart and libido for heavy pain sluts.
Outside of BDSM I tend to be a Suzy Homemaker type with a power drill. I do like the juxtaposition of traditional roles being bent to suit the needs of those involved but I find that relationships with me work better when I am the one in charge of my 'little husband'.
I am loving, sane and very realistic. I just have this sexually sadistic side that wants to hurt you while we cuddle. I shun drama and bull. Oh, and by the way I do enjoy a good make out session from time to time. I require it.
I am looking for the real deal. Someone who is wanting and is ready for a LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP or don't bother me. I am NOT interested in online anything for more than friendship and time wasters won't find anything interesting here.
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1/2/2022 3:30:07 PM: So I begin this new year still seeking a sub who is sane and not so self-absorbed to believe that I would drop all that I am doing to cater to his fetish du jour. Why do guys think that I am going to stop what I am doing to peg them if I am not really into pegging anymore? Or that I want to spend hours talking to some dude 5 states away about it when they aren't here? I don't want to get into an internet thing with some dude I want to find someone who can actually play who is here not someone jacking off by themselves in their mother's basement or some dude sneaking away from the wife long enough to get hard so that he can finally fuck her so that she will shut up.
I think the hardest part of all of this is how I can't seem to find what it is that I thought would be fairly easy to find. A pretty guy who is sane enough to want to explore his bounderies and still be able to fuck. But that has proven to be rare enough. Meh. Maybe my need to actually like a sub is my problem. I am not into using people and I am not really into broken people so that leaves a lot of men on the table. And shit, let us not get started on the women.
I know we all have our baggage but don't bring that shit to the session. I am not a therapist or your mother. I just want to have fun too. And digging through your emotional shit is exhausting.
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