I am an intelligent Dominant SWM who is a non-smoker, D/D free and possess a great sense of humor.

I have a wide range of interests including art, music, film (as opposed to mindless blockbuster movies) and stimulating conversation. I enjoy dining out, eating healthy, red wine, sports and laughter.

I'm extremely open-minded, very real, not a fake or flake and I'm always respectful of boundries. I am not into the Gorean aspect of D/s and am as far away from 'Lord Dragonbreath' as you can get.

I know and understand that any D/s relationship is built on mutual trust and honesty, whether it is a long term committed relationship or just casual play.

I love the 'connection' that happens between a Dominant and a submissive more than any mere 'act'. I believe that the mental aspect is ultimately the most satisfying part of what this is all about.

I prefer to be called "Daddy" more than I do "Master" or "Sir" because I don't mind papmering and spoiling my special one. I love the contrast between "sweet" and "mean".

Sexually, there is little I have not tried and probably less than I would, with the exception of male/male contact. (I'm not homophobic, but that's just not something I am even remotely interested in).

I do enjoy anal, age play, 1950's household, orgasm control, fisting and much more.

Other than that...it's pretty much fair game depending on what my partner feels comfortable with. If my partner is less open-minded then that's ok too. I really have no 'must do or I won't enjoy myself' kinks, although I *love* anal play and do have a bit (or more than a bit... ;) ) of a sadistic streak at times.

My Ideal Person: You should be in fairly decent shape or at least HWP, a non-smoker, witty, intelligent and have a good idea of who you really are and what you want out of life.

Age may be just a number, but I do prefer and have always dated younger women in both "real life" and in BDSM.  I am active and fun and want someone with a very youthful and energetic attitude and life. I enjoy mentoring and teaching and providing new experiences. I don't really have an upper or lower age limit. Everything depends on the individual person.

I am looking for someone who takes care of her body, mind and life. I want a partner, not a robot and I certainly can't (nor do I want to) 'fix everything' for you.

I hope to find someone who can be comfortable in the time we spent outside of the bedroom or D/s.

I am open to playing with people who have little experience as well as those who have lots.

I'd love to hear from you.