Collarspace

Hello and thank you for stopping by. I am a Dom, I have been in the lifestyle for over 15 years. I have owned 2 slaves, both of them came to me and asked me to be their Master. In my opinion there is no other way that a Master should take possession of a slave and as such I am not currently looking for a slave.

I am however looking for a submissive that is interested in a Ds relationship

I am experienced enough to know that in a true Ds relationship the sub holds the power because it is her that must relinquish it and until she does there is no relationship.

ones submission is a gift that is given to the one that she desires. Aanyone can call themselves a Dom or a sub but neither is more than a word without true understanding, consent, desire, and respect.

When the gift is bestowed upon me I take the responsibility very seriously and accept that it is a trust she has placed in my hands that I MUST coddle and love.

I saw a profile that said a true Dom has

a firm hand

a firm hold

a firm voice

a Firm gaze

and a tender heart.

I do understand if you dont have a pic in your profile although it makes it hard to see if there is an attraction.

That being said, if you dont have a pic in your profile and would like chat or talk please be respectful and open enough to include a pic with your first msg.

that is a good deoon of me

If there is anything else you would like to know please ask.

Tom (Sir)