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If youre looking, Im sure you want to know my story.Im a former competitive powerlifter. I suffered a career ending injury several years ago during a competition. Ive had the surgeries to fix it, but age, and more important life obligations that conflict with the rigors of competition put any serious titles out of my reach. I still love it and continue to push myself to become stronger (refer to my third picture for a recent PR). I still keep up with the sport as well.In my day to day life, I tend to be a very friendly and outgoing person. I am a people person to the bone. I like to have fun and I am not the stereotypical, overly serious type. I am a leader in both my personal life and my professional life. I love to take charge and handle a situation where ever it may rise. In my personal life, I like a bit of micromanaging, but Im not neurotic with it.I am looking not just for a s-type, but a companion. I am looking for a relationship where the power dynamic is undeniable yet subtle. I want outsiders to look and know that I am the Dominant person in the relationship, but I dont want it to be obvious what goes on behind closed doors. I want there to be some organic growth, and where we can actually care for one another instead of looking at each other as fetish dispensaries.As far as my own specific kinks, Im not going to write all of them here but I will put some major ones down, you can check my profile for a more complete list.Im a fan of hair pulling, situational bondage, spanking, physical restraint, and traditional 1950s lifestyle. Im curious about DDlg, though I have no experience as a full blown Daddy Dom.If you have any other questions, I am open to speak with virtually anyone so long as youre respectful.

9192018 We dont have journals anymore so I thought Id just rant here. A lot has changed since Ive last been on this site searching, I feel like almost every s-type I reach out to is just utterly foul. I try to lead off with a non-sexual question, I get libel about my intentions. I try to lead with a joke, I get met with insults. I write a real message referring to their profile, I get nothing. I dont mind not getting a response, simply means their not interested. It bugs me to approach someone with respect and get insulted for it.