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Looking for a man to abuse me in roleplay...

Im a bit of a beginner but feel I should indulge some fantasies before its too late. If you fancy playing the cruel dominant man to my innocent self then read on...

So this is what goes on in my fantasy land! I apologise if its a bit of a brain dump and is not intended as a wish-list. Maybe just a few of these things appeal to you...

Consistent things are that I am caught, tied or held down, abused and punished. Humiliation is great too.

I would enjoy any of the following

Body searched - airport security style - maybe finding something incriminating that way for which I am then punished
Interrogation
Being shouted at
Being told what horrible things might happen to me (even if they dont actually happen)
Tied up - all positions appealing
A hand over the mouth, or around the neck
Gagged for some of the time - preferably with a cloth gag
Breath control is interesting to me
Ropes, chains, handcuffs, cable ties, collars - all good
Being humiliated in ways such as being asked to count out the strokes of my own punishment
I like the idea of being anally abused or threatened with it - having a finger or small item up my bottom, for example
Corporal punishment - but not to leave long-lasting marks (hence belt better than cane)
Generally - be nasty to me - I want to feel a bit frightened -)

I dont mind surprises or additions, especially if you feel you understand what Im looking for overall - if in doubt just ask...

Things Im not really into include scat, blood, pups, masterslave lifestyle, CBT, clothes destruction

I would like to keep my top halve clothed throughout - but my bottom half is at your disposal!

Im in a normal marriage - so discretion is important to me, and avoiding too many marks

Wow - that was a lot of stuff - thanks for reading!

Please get in touch if you think there is any common ground or something youd like to suggest