I tend to be a homebody, I enjoy the peaceful outdoors, I am polite, respectful, and from time to time I find myself caught up in an adventure. My job has a heavy outdoor component and I spend a lot of time in the mountains and forest. 

More often than not my activities include enjoying good conversation, board games, card games, writing, movies, and similar activity. In case you were curious for confirmation, the screen name is Jed Bartlet because I am a fan of the West Wing. A couple of times a month or more, depending on the weather and work, I like to get out for a trip or two to the coast, forest, or other like

My primary kink is control. I enjoy almost any type of play activity to one degree or another that is centered around controlling my partner. The more extreme for the partner the better for me. Everyone has their own individual limits of what they are comfortable with and skirting around them is the essence of my enjoyment. I love the feel of rope when I tie it, lash it, and cinch it. The real pleasure comes from knowing that it is inescapable, yet yielding to be left for a long period of time.

I have included a picture, but it is limited as a result of a need for some anonymity.

If you would like to get acquainted or you are curious about anything send me an email. I have a collared slave that lives with me. We are poly and she would be happy to meet anyone who was interested in playing with us together or comfortable with not interacting with someone who is with me. She would be pleased if I found someone to further enrich my life.

Ultimately I am looking for someone who will help broaden my perception of the world and enjoyment. I do not have a rigid set of standards or labels to identify who you might be, but a good overlap of interests and a similar outlook is most likely a good starting point.


Good luck in your search and I certainly hope that each of you find what completes you.