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cjklyn
| Hetero Male, 60, Birmingham, United Kingdom
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Hi (and hi again, for those whove read this before). Back again. Single again and looking to move on with my life.. Ive been on a journey over the last few years, and have come to realise the important part I need bdsm to play in my life. Ideally I desire a long term relationship founded on bdsm, but with a good dose of vanilla to! . Like any potential relationship, id expect to get to know someone well, to have a level of compatibility in interests and desires (not just bdsm), and then take it from there.
Im also interested in training ( giving) and play but stress there has to be some sort of connection. Ive got close to this once but sadly it didnt really work out, so after taking stock again for a while its time to try again.Im an experienced dom and single!Any relationship needs to be based on honesty, trust and respect. Honesty should be a given. youll find me an unusual guy online, as I am honest. I dont hide behind a false persona. Im very much the same online as I am offline.
Wish I could say that about more people. As for respect. I dont expect that just because I say Im a dom. I expect to earn your respect, and your trust to. but that works both ways and needs that vital ingredient in any relationship , open honest communication.
I currently live in Birmingham but Im in a position where I can relocate if necessary,and Im more than happy to travel.
happy to provide up to date photos if needed. I even manage to smile in a couple of them!
PLEASE NOTE if you check my interests, please bear in mind, that I dont believe you can get to know someone through checklists. Ive put down things I love and things im curious about BUT.....none of these are MUSTS!!! I believe when you get to know someone, you share, openly and honestly, your interests, and adapt them to your partner. SO please, treat the checklist as a base to discuss things but remember, its not fixed in stone.. if that makes sense!
Chris
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1/17/2023 6:42:15 AM: As someone recently pointed out (Thankyou !!!!), I havent updated my Journal on here for a LONG time. Not since 'Collarme' days for those of you who've been on the site for a while may recall. So heres a quick update! Having recovered from 2 bout of Covid and Long Covid, a year out of work through the lockdowns, and a reticence to 'get back out there' that i've finally overcome, I'm looking to get back into the scene this year! My last relationship ended sadly at the end of 2018, and while I'm happy on my own, I'm missing the lifestyle. So next month I plan to visit the BBB again, maybe refresh my 'bag of tricks' as one lady called it. And plan to pop along to some local munches too. and maybe along the way find someone to share some fun times with. Who knows. C
11/4/2009 11:20:33 AM: How Maddening! Just been blocked for sending a "copy/paste" message, something I've never done and never will! Because I said "good morning" and CM timed the message at 2pm....it obviously had to be copy/pasted. How SAD! Just cos I'm a bit gormless today ( just asked my kids if they are going to fireworks parties tonight!!! a day early) doesnt mean I'm one of those saddos who can't write an original and meaningful message. grrrrr!!!
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