Collarspace

Hey there, Im a funny, laid back, kinda quiet guy with a love for nerdy things as well as going out and doing some odd adventures as well(like skydiving). I prefer meeting in smaller groups of people vs larger, noisier events most of the time and I enjoy spending a lot of nights in simply relaxing.

I was introduced a short time ago to this lifestyle in the sexual aspect and I immediately took an interest in it and am eager to find another relationship where I can more fully explore its aspects, more on that later. Ive always enjoyed being an orchestrator or had some level of power in various activities in my life though, mostly because I knew I was either better suited to the task or that someone else would abuse their position. The best example I can think of is one of my biggest hobbies being a game-master for a dungeons and dragons group for some friends and coworkers(yeah I know, Im THAT kind of nerd and Im proud of it). For those that dont know, the game-master is responsible for creating the setting of the game, advancing and adjusting the story based on the actions of his or her players, controlling every other character that the players come into contact with, both friendly and hostile, handing out rewards or penalties to the players appropriate for their actions and current place in the game, and being the final arbiter of all the games rules. Its a lot of work for a hobby but I enjoy having that power because I use it consistently to create an engaging experience for my players. Its only recently that Ive realized how I can apply those feelings to the sexual aspect of my life with a willing partner.

Ideally Im looking for a long-term relationship with a woman who has similar interests with me both in and outside of the bedroom. Someone who I can enjoy spending time with on a regular basis and is always ready for some kink as I do have a fairy high sex drive and am eager to find and push my limits. However Id like to think that Im a pretty open and versatile person and coupled with my relative inexperience to this lifestyle Im definitely up for discussions about alternate types of relationships as Ive seen a lot of variation on the profiles here and Im even open to purely online interactions for the time being. If anybody out there has any other questions or simply want to chat just shoot me a message.