I've had a lovely image of a "first date."

After a lovely series of emails and discussions, You finally decided that I am to be allowed the privilege of meeting You in person.  Of course, there are several caveats, not the least of which is the requirement that I attend the date locked in the metal chastity cage You had me purchase shortly after we began chatting.  I am to bring the key to the lock to the "date." After You are comfortably seated, I am to place the key to the lock presently on the cage onto the table.  It will stay there during the meal and drinks - a symbol of the relationship being considered throughout.

If at the end of the date, You are interested and attracted to me, you'll take the key with You and leave.  If not, you'll leave the key and there will be no second date. 

Of course, You have a slightly different plan, as You are always several steps ahead: if you are interested, instead of just taking my key, You'll slide a lock across the table - Your lock.  I am not allowed to leave the table until I take off my lock (proving I brought the right key) and put your lock on the cage (for which only you have a key). 

If You want to own, You would never risk that I have a spare key at home. Ownership must be real, and a metal cage with a metal lock is the only way to ensure Your ownership is truly real. 

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Update:  Let me be clear (as there has been some confusion), I absolutely love to cum; I am very normal in that regard.  I simply know how allowing a man to orgasm regularly changes his attitude and submissiveness.  To me, being a good submissive should be more important than my great enjoyment of cumming - hence my profile name.  Of course, using that "desire" as a means of torment is - perhaps - one of the best ways for a Domme to get what she wants!  ;)

Back to our regularly scheduled profile....

I understand that Mistresses have to deal with flakes on the sub side, too.  If we both are reasonable and genuine, I'm sure I can provide you with the enjoyment you desire!  ;)

I'm a very polite, eager, helpful, enthusiastic submissive.  I will not fight you or struggle with you.  What works for me is being truly, fully controlled.

I hope to find the right, beautifully sadistic Woman who absolutely believes cumming is truly for women and takes great pleasure in control of me and caging of (her) cock.  

I saw a Mistress' profile which read, "The longer you are denied, the more controllable you become."  I thought that was well put and very true.   I want to see how far that goes. 

I'm very focused on my Mistress' pleasure and I want her to be happy - and not have her "worry" about my deep need to cum - except as to make it worse and worse for her pleasure!  

I am attractive and fit, very polite and respectful. I am a professional man, and fairly "alpha" in my job and vanilla life (though, more affectionate and caring than what would truly be considered an "alpha" male).  Deep down I most want to have a beautiful woman in charge, and feel the cage she locks onto me each and every day, and I know I could please her and increase her happiness. 

As is my nature, all inquires will be addressed with respect and understanding of the relative position of power a woman should have over me.

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