Collarspace

Important tipnote about CollarMeSpace (Ill explain my name for this site if you ask)

Hit the button above the picture to the right that says View Interests. Interests are no longer automatically showing on main pages, apparently due to perance issues with the site. Seeing interests can be somewhat helpful. Somewhat. I point out this button, because to long time users of this site, this change is not obvious.

And now, back to my original profile

I cant fix you. I cant make your life perfect. I am The One, but not your One. If you need to experience things and you havent found anyone who can help with that, maybe we should talk about it. In that case, I may well be able to give you what you need. I like to talk. But please,be thoughtful andserious. That doesnt mean humorless. This is supposed to be fun. Im real. I know most arent. I figure out fast.

The things I listed dont have as much significance as they might appear.The list isjust for you to get a very rough idea. Much is omitted. Like I said above, I like to talk, and Im honest, because I dont see the point in anything else, so, just ask whatever you want to know. Im probably going to answer.

Please dont message me if you are over sensitive and like to hit the block button quickly. Its a waste of our time.

I really dont care much about looks, I care more about attitude. I like intelligence and willingness.

I probably wont like you if you are under 23.

If there are typos or other problems or things Ive written that arent clear, just tell me. I may be a controlling, dominating asshole (I do try to suppress the asshole part), but I listen.

More collarmespace system housekeeping and notes... If you see a message that Im blocked...

Thanks to flaws in thecollarMeSpace automated messaging policies, I need to preface my profile. I am actually looking for something specific. There are times when I send out a bunch of short emails to get clarification regarding a point or two in the profiles Im reading. The polite and intelligentpeople who read emails get the point and are appreciated very much by me when they reply. Even when there is nothing matching up for us, I still like to respond with a short thank-you. Unfortunately, if I do a number of these responses very quickly in a short session during a break, the poorly designed collarMeSpace spam filter kicks in. It doesnt understand that my replies to non spam are not spam. It does not see that all of my emails, while sometimes similar, are unique and targeted only to *you*.

If you see a message that collarMeSpace has blocked me, please understand that the filter has kicked in. Please expect a delay of... well... I guess about 24 hours. Im not exactly sure. Thanks for your patience and understanding on this. Trust me, on this issue I have to have patience, but I havevery littleunderstanding.