What I seek:

* Domestic service.  You will cook, clean, garden, do home repair, perform secretarial functions, and generally care for my wife and I.

* Protocol.  You will learn to conduct yourself gracefully, with propriety, and to my satisfaction in a variety of circumstances: from vanilla settings where we do not wish to make others uncomfortable to elegant fetish community dinners.

* Conditioning.  I will use techniques used by psychologists and animal trainers to reinforce behaviors of yours that I enjoy, while rooting out those I do not find pleasing.

* Openness.  You will answer questions I ask you to your fullest capacity, with honesty and depth.  You will be receptive to the direction I give you and what I wish you to become.

* Connection.  I want to profoundly know and feel rapport with the people in my life.  This is no less true for people I exchange power with than more normal relationships.

Beyond this, everything is negotiable.  I prefer long-term relationships, but anyone who thinks they might serve as long as six months would be acceptable.  I prefer live-in 24/7 service, but would accept part time from someone cross-town.  I enjoy recreational sadism, but don't need to exercise it in this relationship.  I love sexual service, but am happy to conduct platonic power exchange.  At least a little experience is preferred, but for the genuine newcomer I am willing to do what once someone did for me and show you the way.

What I offer/about me:

* I am a polyamorous, married 37 year old.  I own my own house, have a stable income, and clear life plans.

* 15+ years BDSM experience and 5+ years in D/s relationships.

* I like to joke around and play pranks.  I make no apologies for the puns you will suffer through.  ;p

* I currently work in genetics research.  I want to figure out how to greatly improve the human lifespan, as well as learn to regenerate damaged tissue.  (Reptiles and fish do it, there's no reason we shouldn't!)

* I am a foodie, and love to both eat and cook.

* I am an audiophile.  I want to listen to music almost all the time, and like to catch live shows.  I am also working on teaching myself the piano when I have the time.

* My wife and I are nerds.  We like to play games, watch sci-fi on Netflix, have philosophical and political conversations, and read all the books.

* I want to make everyone's dreams come true.  I like integrating other people's fantasies into my own to make a cohesive whole with elements fulfilling to all parties.

*  In addition to providing room and board for any live-in/full time servant, we will provide health insurance, and save money against retirement or severance.

If you have questions/comments or an interest in what I seek, please contact me.