4/14/2018 2:46:50 AM: The 2nd pic is not me.  But if anyone knows where I can get one of those shirts please let me know.....

10/30/2017 11:02:12 PM: Life has its surprises and disappointments.   Along the journey, one comes to appreciate true friends all the more.

1/3/2010 11:21:46 PM: Making some great new friends here.   Find me sometimes in a chat room, and if yur nice i might invite you to cuddle up on my lap.  Some people can take small things in life too seriously.  Respect is earned not taken.  Abusive people generally don't get this. Allow me a small rant, about those who go on about their so many years 'in the lifestyle', if they haven't learned to build relationships.  For many of us, bdsm is play and should be a fun (and that includes, intense) experience, enhancing what 2 people have put effort into making a good relationship.  in reality, its hard to make it work the other way around.  I.e. beating on somebody doesnt make a relationship.    I enjoy fantasy play and i will sometimes get immersed into a character.  For those new to the life i am someone safe and sane (other than my characters....lol), easy to know, and protective of my friends. Feel free to ask about anything.