Tall, dark, handsome, intelligent and sophisticated. I am 5'10, weigh 170 lbs, have dark hair, deep brown, intense eyes, with a light olive/Mediterranean skin complexion. I spent most of my childhood and young adulthood in Europe where I was introduced to the D&S lifestyle. A divorced professional, I am physically fit with a busy but flexible schedule. I enjoy good food and wine, weekend getaways and vacations to exotic destinations.

I am a strong, assertive, alpha-type personality who enjoys a variety of fetishes and kinks but more into fulfilling the emotional, mental and sexual aspect of BDSM rather than the dark side involving extreme pain and humiliation. I love role playing and some of my kinks include:

- tugging hair, otk, spanking and flogging
- Using restraints: rope, bindings, cuffs, hog ties, gags
- Toys and props such as dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, anal beads, blindfolds, crops, nipple clamps, candle wax

The above are not "must haves" and I remain open to your preferences, I also enjoy plain, vanilla sex and at times I may be in the mood for just raw, rough, hard-core sex intermingled with slow, soft and sensual.

I am however NOT into any of the following and these are completely off-limits:

- Golden showers, excretions, necro-anything
- Animals, drawing blood, branding
- Extreme BDSM play, physical humiliation, cruelty
- Anything illegal

You must possess an aching desire to please and serve. A smart-ass, feisty, bratty attitude is a definite plus as is intelligence, smarts, and a keen seen of wit.

I am seeking a substantive relationship built on mutual respect with honesty and trust serving as the underpinnings of our friendship. I do not expect a long term relationship or a white, picket fence scenario (although I am open to one) but neither am I interested in ONLY a one-time play situation. In the privacy of my bedroom you will be whoever I choose you to be in public however, I will treat you as my equal and with kindness and respect.