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I'm currently looking for a rope bunny to engage in both floor and suspension bondage. This does not necessarily have to evolve into a romantic or sexual relationship, but will almost certainly develop into a very intimate and close friendship. Ideally you should be 5'0" to 5'6", and preferably petite. Flexibility is a must and ballet experience is a distinct advantage. If you're interested then please get in touch. **"Making girls cry since 1966"** I've been fascinated by BDSM for most of my life. It's fueled fantasies and experimentation for decades, but over the last few years I've been able to take the opportunity to explore and experience the scene in Miami and South Florida. However, BDSM does not define me, it's simply one component of the entity that is me. People do like labels though, so I'll state that my current favourite label for myself is "sensual sadist", insofar as any label can be appropriate for me. In other words, after I've beaten you black and blue, I'll rub lotion/arnica gel on your bruises. However, do not mistake this to mean I am "nice". I am kind, considerate and, in the appropriate circumstances gentle, but I am never "nice". I like impact play, really heavy impact play. The last masochist I delivered a beating to called me a "Motherfucker" mid-scene. My response was, "Thank you, that's the nicest thing anybody's said to me all day.", and beat her so hard the St. Andrew's cross she was tied to moved about 10 feet across the room. I'm developing a flogging technique which involves taking a runup. It's loosely based on Adam Sandler's golf swing in "Happy Gilmore". I'll be happy to demonstrate it to anyone, all you need do is ask. I also have a keen interest in erotic hypnosis and its incorporation into a D/s relationship, and have played and practiced with this aspect of the lifestyle for almost 15 years. I love rope play. The artist in me tends towards the aesthetic style of traditional Japanese rope bondage, but the pragmatist living in my head eschews the pretentiousness of many of its adherents. I am also constantly engaged in a search for techniques which will make my rope play even more sadistic. I enjoy incorporating such elements as saw palmetto stalks and bottle caps into my ties. **If you're a rope bottom and are willing to let me practice on you (and perhaps be photographed while tied), then please drop me a line.** I consider myself to be intelligent and articulate. I love food (I'm a very good cook), wine, women and song, but not necessarily in that order. I'm gainfully employed as a project manager for a software company and get to travel extensively throughout the United States and Europe. I enjoy intellectual stimulation of all kinds. I'm an unapologetic flirt but enjoy deep and meaningful conversations about anything and everything. I'm here to meet people, make friends and find play partners. I'm very used to travelling in my professional life, so distance is not necessarily an obstacle to forming a relationship. If you'd like to know more, please message me. If you'd like to add me as a friend, please feel free, but do also drop me a line at the same time or shortly afterwards to introduce yourself. I promise I'll respond as soon as I'm able. I can get along with just about anybody, but if you're one of those people who takes yourself (and life), way too seriously, then our relationship will be short-lived. **I am not and cannot be monogamous at this time in my life. I am in a committed, polyamorous relationship with my collared submissive and will not allow anyone or anything to disrupt that. If you need monogamy, or expect to be my primary partner, then I am not the man for you. If you feel you can fit in with and accept this kind of a relationship dynamic, then please feel free to message me and we can start the process of getting to know each other.** I'm an accomplished photographer, and would love the chance to add to my portfolio with more fetish shots and or artistic nudes. So if you're at all interested in modelling, please let me know. My other hobbies include scaring girls and making them cry. I present various classes/demos, including, but not limited to the following: * Erotic Hypnosis * Shibari for the Complete and Utter Bastard * Memoirs from Midnight's Mansion of Misery and Mayhem - An exploration of sadistic techniques beyond a basic flogging. If you'd like me to present at your event, please drop me a line. I organise and moderate the South Florida Hypnosis Kaffeeklatsch, a "monthly" discussion group for those interested in erotic and recreational hypnosis. For those of you who are into that whole Meyers-Briggs crap, I'm STFU. If you believe that eating or not eating, wearing or not wearing, doing or not doing certain things will please/displease some imaginary sky-pixie, then we probably won't get along. Similarly, if you believe that people's personalities are affected by the apparent positions at their birth of arbitrary groupings of large nuclear fusion reactors millions and billions of light years apart, then please don't mention it, as a laugh in the face often offends. I'm British, so please be aware that I've been trained in sarcasm and irony from birth. If I take the piss* out of you then it means either that: 1. I like you or, B. You're an idiot. I've known this for a while, but just thought I'd put it out there. Natural redheads with freckles appear to be my Kryptonite :-) *Mock

2/6/2010 7:37:43 AM Results of my latest photoshoot can be viewed here Sample image: If you'd like to book a session, drop me a line.  I'll give a 20% discount on my usual rates for collarme.com members :-)

11/5/2009 12:01:16 PM Another pet peeve: It's cuckold, not cuckhold!  Good grief, what are they teaching them in schools these days?

11/1/2009 7:11:18 AM Pet peeves and rants for the day: - Dominate is a verb, not a noun. If I see one more profile that says "I am a dominate .......", I think I'll scream and enter an asylum. - Text speak is for texting, not writing profiles.  It's not cute, it just makes you appear stupid. - Financial domination is not domination, it's taking advantage of some poor fool with more money than sense.  In the old days we used to call this gold-digging, or having a sugar-daddy.  If it's a male dominant acting this way, we call him an arsehole. - Being young, beautiful and swearing a lot does not make you dominant, it makes you look foolish.  Yes, there are many men who might be taken in by this, but ultimately you'll be unhappy and dissatisfied in your relationships.  On the other side of the coin, being beautiful, intelligent and able to engage in rational conversation make you virtually irresistible and you'll have your pick of the best. That's enough for today, I've got it out of my system.

10/31/2009 5:10:21 PM I'm beginning to think that I might be wasting my time here.  The site seems to be filled with fakes, flakes and gold-diggers and the genuine people who are perhaps interested in forming friendships/relationships are few and far between.  I'll stick it out for a while longer, but I fear my days here are numbered.