12/30/2010 10:22:22 PM: I am a 38 year old Male living in Mumbai. I have been into this lifestyle for the past 18-19 years. I am looking for a Mistress in India for many years now. I am a shy private kind of person. I have a special liking to be a pony to a mistress wearing spurs and holding a whip in her hand riding me hard.   The lifestyle is new to Inida. People do not still have the guts to do it in real life. People just fantasise about it. Women should take the lead and dominate the men.They are born just to do that.