Hey there!

I am an intelligent and imaginative, professional well travelled, well educated and not unattractive dominant male, with a pretty highly developed sense of humour.

My first aim here is to find a female partner with which to share time - for a long time -  in a close and strongly connected deep bond, and if this happens, great. My next aim is to experience, to develop as a dom, to apply the craft, to entertain and be entertained, to meet wonderful and interesting people.

If you are interested in a relationship type relationship, here are some things:

You have a strong desire within you to give yourself to another, to their love, to their life, to their companionship. To serve them, and to receive their pleasure, with certainty and without question. To be cared for, to be nurtured, to belong. To be collared. To be prepared to be loved, and when love is not enough, to be punished.

You will be a interesting, entertaining, and flirtacious. The kind of person that would prefer red wine to vodka shots (well, at least most of the time....), and probably a bit of hippy at heart. As I have a vanilla life as a professional person, how that professionalism is maintained also includes my partner....and you will meet people, carry on discussions, we will be seen together in public, and you will entertain people, and so on.

You will be a capable person, and have the capability of independence if you so chose. That is, you are not a clingy person, and do not seek a submissive relationship with a Master through a lack of your own capacity to carry on your own life.

You will have had an extensive sexual history, and have a highly developed interest in sex, and sex related play. Probably you will have done things that you could not possibly think you could share with your friends, and things you feel guilty about. Many people, if not yourself, would have labelled you a slut, or a whore, at one time or another.

Here are some things about me:

I try (and generally succeed) to be a nice and tolerant guy, a law abiding member of society, and a contributor to my community....an upstanding mostly vanilla kind of guy.

I have a great capacity for empathy, and for caring, and for carrying responsibility.

I  believe (like many others, including Sigmund Freud) that sex, and the desire for it, drives much of how each of us behaves, interacts, and thinks, throughout all aspects of our lives. I also believe that the mind has far  more to do with sex, than do the genitals.

I enjoy the company of women, especially intelligent women capable of holding a conversation....but don't sweat on the conversation skills, I am sure I can find a way of filling up the time.