Collarspace

**UPDATE** Looking for a travel subslave. I am a white male Dom of 21 years. I am white, HWP, 54 and have real life experience. I am looking for a true submissiveslave, I am real, I am serious and I seek that one fine submissiveslave female that enjoys her submission as much as I enjoy the domination. I do respect all limits and boundaries. My experiences are varied and my talents are quite enjoyable. I believe that a true male Dom carries a great responsibility for both the submissiveslave and the Dom. It starts with the mind and where you take the mind, the body follows. It is about attitude, it is about mutual pleasure, mutual trust (developed over time), it is about taking you places that a normal vanilla experience cannot take you. I learn about my submissive, I learn what is going on in her head, her likes, her dislikes, her wants, her needs, her desires, deep desires, her cravings. I do ask alot of questions up front which I use to build around and prepare for the real time experiences. You have to know and understand what is in the submissives head, then you can develop what is termed the play activity. It is NOT about sex, it is about attitude, it is about the mind. Some sexually activities may come into play in time, but that is not what a Domsub relationship is about. At the same time once the trust is developed, once the confront zone is established, once the submissives mind is understood, then the sex will be more intense, more pleasurable, more passionate, more rewarding and it will be like nothing you have ever experienced before. For those who have not been involved in the lifestyle I will tell you that the bond between a Dom and his submissive is tighter, stronger than any you have ever experience in the vanilla world. Once that balanced is achieved it is Amazing, Awesome and very rewarding for both. I am serious about this post, I am real, I seek that one true submissive that needs, wants, desires, craves this journey as much as I do. Attitude is KEY! I have no problem with inexperienced submissives. In fact new submissives entering into the lifestyle is very rewarding. You see a woman start out vanilla, you see her grow, develop, experience, the joy in her face as she discoveries the things I have discussed. It is very rewarding to watch a new one grow, develop and experience the pleasures that are only found in this experience. Please feel free to contact me and ask any questions you desire. I am more than willing to discuss, explain and talk about anything you might need, want or desire to know or understand. I am patient as I search. This is not for everyone. My journey to find that special female I am sure will take time. I again will state, I am real, I am serious. I do have a pic and I do have a cam. There must be an attraction, but the attraction does start with your mind, attitude and your need to submit. If after reading this you truely believe this is you, this is what you seek, you desire, you crave, then please respond and tell me about yourself. Tell me about why you have an interest, tell me about any experiences you might have had or if your new, just state that youre new. A pic is not a deal breaker, but it always helps your cause. Cams are even better since there are many fakes out there, I will confirm early on that you are who and what you say you are. As I can do the same. Thank You.