1/2/2018 11:22:01 AM: Be local. Experienced or novice....... attitude and honesty is crucial. Grey hair on sides and back with short pony tail, bald on top, full short white beard, brown eyes and a deep commanding voice.    I am honest, loyal and require the same from anyone with whom I associate. I am naturally dominant but never abusive in any way. I see D/S relationships as power sharing and in order to be successful they must be symbiotic.    I'm not a player. I work hard and I'm much more particular with whom I spend my time than what I am doing. I am bright, intelligent, witty, am most comfortable in very casual attire but I do clean up well and still own a suit. I am white collar, blue collar and no collar all rolled into one man.    DO NOT mistake my kindness for weakness. I know who and what I am and don't feel the need to show off to express it.... ever.   Experienced in what matters to me but open minded in many ways. I'm not a player and not looking for one. Honesty above all is important. LTR is what I seek with the right woman.   I am not a sadist in any way but can handle masochist's needs in many ways. Lets talk about what you need and what I can do to meet them. I am not interested in degrading anyone but seek a true power sharing synergistic relationship.   I am an excellent teacher, mentor, coach and am not afraid of novices or beginners. Am most attracted to women younger than me but I do not rule out anyone just because of age. Be somewhat fit and at least able to be physically active.   If you want to know more read my Journal and if its not there then ask and I'll give you a straight honest answer. Are you ready to blossom? “And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” – Anais Nin “You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.” -Kahlil Gibran And when you take that away, you take away everything........... Me     

4/21/2016 9:33:22 PM: WoW... been a while since I have posted here and a lot has happened. I fell in love and got my heart broken. My fault not hers. Finally found a worthwhile woman on here but it didn't work. No one's fault really just the way it is. Health has been good but had a TIA  (mini stroke) a couple weeks ago and now my cardiologist is at war with my parts trying to figure out why and how. Lots of tests and more doctors. I am getting to really hate this life. Way too much running from one doc to another and all I still want is one quality sub woman to settle down with. Why many liars and fakes? Why is this so hard? Is it all worth it?

1/26/2016 4:50:13 PM: Been a while since I have written anything here. Tomorrow is special so perhaps that has nudged me to write tonight. I had recently found someone who interested me enough to write and who is close  enough in distance. The deion was not one that I found familiar and the picture was incomplete. I didn't recognize this person at all but when I sent my email it was blocked. Obviously someone did not want to be recognized by me at least.  SMH   Happy birthday to me.   On to the next. I don't like what they have done to the highlighting feature on here. I prefer the solid background as it was before.On the cardio front, my recent visit and testing went well and I am still off the heart meds. Dr. still does not like it but like I told her, 'Can't argue with success'  I feel better and have less issues and the testing went well so that's all encouraging. Now if I could just find the right woman while I'm still young enough to enjoy her !!  LoL

9/9/2015 11:18:32 AM: Had cardio visit again today as follow up from last week.  There were things left unsaid and not understood.  Now its all clear and I am officially off heart meds for the time being.  We'll see how I do without them.  Next visit is January !!  Woohoo !!!

6/18/2015 7:25:13 PM: I have not written here for along time.  Health is OK and it seems that not much changes around this site.  Some new faces  and profiles as usual and the same rude bunch of women who have no manners and ignore courteous emails sent to them and then complain about the rude men who write them in their Journals. Oh yes and then the operators of this site who continue to lie about what is going on with it when nothing works right and still doesn't after a few weeks and they want us to believe the lies they tell in response to messages we send to SUPPORT.  What a crock !!