It amazing with all the unsavory and dangerous peeps in the news later, that a future sub or slave would not want to just IM, but chat live on cam or on cell. Those are safe actions before you proceed to meet live.

It also validate that you are both real and not fakes or scammers. They do not want to prove that they are real. The dangerous individuals remains anonymous.

Don't you get tired of the fakes and wanna bees. I do. You can tell when the person starts to tell you what they want, instead of saying I can meet the Master or Dom needs. Or this is what I can offer are you interested,? Those are the rare qualities of a slave/sub. The moment the slave or sub begins to put their needs first they are probably just looking for a husband or kinky sex.

I fully understand getting to know each other and safety, however, when all that takes place and is online and no progression, then it is time to move on. Or those who contact you and never respond back , I cannot stand a lack of courtesy form anyone. No excuses. There is even an auto reply button to make easy for those that are overwhelmed. Be real and be polite. Know what you want and say it up front.

Sir Xcalbar

"A Home For the Holidays"

Are you not so looking forward to eating by yourself, or another year at a restaurant, or that family with all the brats? Is it cold and chilly where you are and you need a warm place for a few days with like minded peeps? Need to relax, are you local and looking for a lifestyle Home for the holidays? NSA. You can join me and a few peeps for the holiday on Thanksgiving and celebrate the holiday and just relax, eat and enjoy, and watch some football or just do "nothing". Sounds good, then PM me and I will provide more info. 

Happy Thanksgiving from the House of Excalbar

CUM OVER TO THE DARKSIDE AND MEET YOUR DESTINY

The Search continues.....

Sir Xcalbar

P.S. do not be afraid, just be fearful. I am your worst nightmare..the one you have been looking for..evil grin

Take the Challenge

I am looking at all the profiles, that are new and older entries, however, I wonder how many are real and can keep up with RLT, sexually, mentally and the physical demands of this lifestyle. Many are just fantasizing, which is kool, but how many would like to expand and really live the mindset, are motivated to be what they claim to be. Hopefully they will realize that they have to take risks and roll the dice. I see that there are a few that have been on CM for years and make the same claims, desires and wants, but they never take it to the next level.

So today, I am setting out this challenge to all to take the next step and go the next level.

Sir Xcalbar

P.S. let me know how it goes.

I am amazed that there are so many fakers. My slave is in heat and I am finding it difficult to find male/female to use her or join us on. Especially when we are local and can host. Where are the real LifeStyle peeps?

New Experience

My black bisexual slave/slut has never been used by a white male or female and as part of her growth would like to have that experience.  You must be over 30yrs old with at least 8” dick (males), drug and disease free, be able to host and contact me directly. I will also allow her to be gang-banged by whites and BBC.  Only serious inquiries, please.  Couples can contact me also.  WE are in central Florida and available locally.

“"Treat people as if they were what they ought to be, and you help them to become what they are capable of Being." ---Goethe”

When you let your fears and insecurities are your guide, then at the end of the day, week or year, all you have is an empty hollow feeling.  A mere shell that grows and become your reality instead of your “HDA’.

Sir Xcalbar

"The last of all human freedoms is the ability to choose one's own attitude in any set of circumstances." Victor Frankl, nazi concentration camp survivor.

Very interesting and true.
Sir Xcalbar

Definition of sapiosexuality :.

(sā-pē-ō-sĕk-shü-ăl'ĭ-tē)

1. 1. (n.) A behavior of becoming attracted to or aroused by intelligence and its use.

   Origins: From the Latin root sapien, wise or intelligent, and Latin sexualis, relating to the sexes.

   Example: Me? I don't care too much about the looks. I want an incisive, inquisitive, insightful, irreverent mind. I want someone for whom philosophical discussion is foreplay. I want someone who sometimes makes me go ouch due to their wit and evil sense of humor. I want someone that I can reach out and touch randomly. I want someone I can cuddle with. I decided this all means that I am sapiosexual.

   Submitted by: Anonymous, Topics: Behavior & Lifestyle, Love & Romance

Think about this for a minute...

If I happened to show up on your door step crying,
Would you Care?
If I called you and asked you to pick me up because something Happened,

Would you come?
If I had one day left, to live my life;
Would you be part of That last day?
If I needed a shoulder to cry on, Would you give me Yours?
This is a test to see who your real Friends are or if you are just someone to talk to you when they are bored. Do you know what the relationship is between your two eyes?
They blink together, they move together,
They cry together, they see things together, and they sleep together,
But they never see each other;

.. that's what friendship is.
Your aspiration is your motivation, your motivation is your belief, your
Belief is your peace, your peace is your target, your target is heaven, and
Life is like hard core torture without it
It's' World Best Friends Week.'
Who is your best friend?
Send this to all Your good friends.
Even me, if I am one of them.
See how many you get back.
If you get more than 3 then you really are a lovable person...
Save the Earth... it's the only planet with chocolate"

I found this prayer on a yahoo group:
"BLACK COCK PRAYER:

Our Master with black cock in hand, hallowed be thy name, thy kindom c*m, thy will be done on earth as it is in your kindom. Give us this day and our daily feeding, forgive us of our sins Master as we forgive others. Please lead us into temptation of sucking black cock. For thyne is the black cock kingdom, from which you have the power, for your glory Master, for ever and ever. AMEN."
Sounds good, what do you think?

“The pejorative term Machiavellian as it is used today (or anti-Machiavellism as it was used from the sixteenth century) is thus a misnomer, as it describes one who deceives and manipulates others for gain; whether the gain is personal or not is of no relevance, only that any actions taken are only important insofar as they affect the results”.

“The pejorative term Machiavellian as it is used today (or anti-Machiavellism as it was used from the sixteenth century) is thus a misnomer, as it describes one who deceives and manipulates others for gain; whether the gain is personal or not is of no relevance, only that any actions taken are only important insofar as they affect the results”.

One should never burn bridges as you might need that bridge again. People are not like a business.

“The pejorative term Machiavellian as it is used today (or anti-Machiavellism as it was used from the sixteenth century) is thus a misnomer, as it describes one who deceives and manipulates others for gain; whether the gain is personal or not is of no relevance, only that any actions taken are only important insofar as they affect the results”.

Do you know someone like this?

Power and control lies not necessarily in the exercise of such, but maybe in the restraint of such and knowing when to use them.

One does not have to be self destructive in order to discover oneself.

Labels:

Often times someone calls themselves a “sub/slave or a Dom/Master.  However, the label does not make the sub/slave or the Dom/Master.  If the core values are not there for either, especially the Dominant/Master, then they are just a glorified pimp.  In addition, the sub/slave is de-valued to a cheap whore.  Not valued property.

In my conversations or chat with some subs it is as if they seek a “manual” on how to be a submissive, like a parent requesting a manual on how to raise a child.  The mark of a true Dominant/Master is how he molds and shapes that sub/slaves to be his submissive, like a painting a masterpiece and not like a generic one size fits all.

After all a Dominant is “The Master” that is creating a piece of art for all to admire.  To building a relationship with his art so it becomes “one” with the Master.  That is what Dominance and submission is all about.

Sometimes there is “fantasy” and there is “reality” and many times we blur the lines, or get stuck, because the line can be very thin.  The result is fear that cripples us and then we hide behind the walls as if we confronted the enemy and discovered it is us.

I seek not your servitude because you fear me, I seek your servitude because you respect and honor me, and yourself. And it is your destiny.