I'm pretty casual outside of play time. I am not into all the etiquette and protocol that goes along with the bdsm community. There is nothing wrong with it, it's just not for me. I am interested in finding a partner who is into this lifestyle for the pure fun and joy of it, not someone who wants a 24/7 situation (but for the right person I'll gladly eat my words). I am looking for someone I can hold a normal relationship with on the outside and then do all the things we enjoy every other moment.

I am not gonna prattle and brag here about experience or equipment (or yours) or what ever, because I don't think that is the most important part, I want someone I can connect with.

I am a geek/dork/nerd or what ever you wanna call it, but don't mistaken that for having lack of backbone or self esteem. I also feel I clean up damn well. I do very well for myself career wise and love my job.

I am not looking for any specific fetish. I have my own and I am very open to many new things and would love to explore your fetishes with you also. I can range anywhere from mild to sadisitic depending on the person I am with.

I currently have my shadowed image up for privacy, I have many pics so feel free to ask if your interested.

I always show the the utmost respect, and I am only interested in people who also respect them selves and take part in this because they enjoy it at thier core.

If your a bit geeky or nerdy yourself that is a huge plus but not necessary of course, just be prepared for some of my geekness to rub off!