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Hetero Female, 49, Solomons, Maryland 
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 Solomons

 Maryland

 5' 6"

 180 lbs

 49

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 05/24/23

No matter how many times I update my profile, CS deletes most of the punctuation I use. I promise I know how to write properly, so please dont call the grammar police on me. LOL

First things first...Im strictly sub (I dont switch) and straight as an arrow (sorry ladies) Im not skinny I can be very shy, at first I have a sarcastic sense of humor, and a dirty mind thats currently not being used to its full potential You wont find any pics of my vagina in my profile. LOL

Im looking for someone that would be interested in getting to know me first. Its a helluva concept for some but I cant for the life of me understand why anyone would want to engage in any sort of BDSM activities with someone they didnt know, but to each his own. I mesh best with someone that appreciates and enjoys the mental aspect of Ds and values how much it can enhance the physical side of things. I like a man that possesses a quiet strength, calm on the surface yet full of intensity beneath. In order for the Ds dynamic to work properly, a Dom should be in control of himself and most aspects of his life. A Dom cant expect to adequately control his sub if he cant effectively and consistently control himself. Respect, trust, honesty, communication, and loyalty are all things that make for a good foundation in any relationship, but these things are vital for any good Ds relationship. Im looking for someone that agrees with this idea, or at least some variation of it.

In my day-to-day life, Im a single, divorced, active mom who loves the mountains and the beach. I like all kinds of music and look forward to traveling and seeing new things when time permits. Camping, hiking, boating, photography, cooking, and gardening are all things that I enjoy. Im also interested in going to plays, musicals, and concerts. Ive been on the back of a motorcycle a time or two and enjoyed the heck out of that too. I prefer the warmer weather (minus the crazy, high humidity) but also appreciate a cozy cabin in the mountains on a snowy day just as well.

I came to realize that I was a submissive somewhere in my early 30s but it has been a long time since I was in a Ds relationship. The smartest thing I ever did was to do a fair amount of reading and research on BDSM as well as Ds and Ms relationships prior to meeting anyone. Of course I learned, as we all do, from each new experience that I had. I dont consider myself experienced nor do I consider myself a newbie. Im somewhere in between. Id also like to mention that I dont believe in any set way of doing things. I think each couple is different and should create their own unique brand of kinky that works for them.

Thanks to those that took the time to read this and remember, a mind fuck is a terrible thing to waste. Be safe and be well.

P.S. If, for some reason, you dont have a photo posted on here, please be ready to share one soon after communication with me begins. Thank you.
2/23/2018 11:22:22 AM: Thanks again to everyone that has asked about my mom or wished her well! She seems to be getting better but doesn't like doing the herceptin treatments even though they're much shorter than the chemo treatments. I'm glad they'll be done in June. She's ready to have her port taken out, that's for sure. Meanwhile, the docs are talking about starting physical therapy in the Spring. She's pretty stubborn and doesn't like that idea, but she needs it. The chemo certainly took away from her mobility. We still don't know if she'll have to do radiation therapy but we'll know by next week. She doesn't want to do it...she's DONE. I can't say I blame her. Well...that's it for now on the cancer stuff. On a side note, I'm trying to catch up on answering my messages but if you sent me any, I wouldn't hold my breath. Just being honest. I'm sorry.

1/4/2018 7:53:54 PM: I want to thank everyone for all the encouraging messages and well wishes in reference to my mom. I tried to reply to as many of you as I could this evening. If I somehow missed responding to you I'm sorry, but please know that I appreciated your message all the same.1/7/2017: I wanted to edit this to add that my mom's chemo is finished. Her herceptin treatments (which are a walk in the park compared to chemo) will continue until June. It remains to be seen whether she will have to go thru radiation therapy. For now, we are enjoying a much needed break.

10/15/2017 6:19:38 PM: I haven't been active on here for quite some time and that will likely continue for a while longer. My mom has been going through chemo so my attention has been (and will continue to be) focused on her. I'm able to chat on occasion, but won't be able to communicate on any kind of consistent basis. My head is not in the game right now, so I also won't be meeting anyone during this time. Take care everyone and have a wonderful week!

7/19/2017 8:07:23 PM: Is it just me, or is cs running butt-a$$ slow tonight?! Time to get rid of the gerbils (since they aren't running) and replace them with greyhounds. I can barely get a message to go through. Grrrrrr

10/29/2016 6:35:48 AM: So today's topic is 'canned' messages. I'm still trying to decide how I feel about them. You know the ones...they send the same message over and over? The message is usually very nice and has a bit of substance to it, but it always makes me wonder if they're sending that same message to EVERYone. I know it's frustrating on here sometimes, so I can kinda understand the reasoning behind it but at the same time it doesn't exactly make me feel special either. Yeah...I definitely need to think some more about it. Currently, I don't answer people who send these types of messages but perhaps I need to reconsider. Maybe they've found a comfortable conversation-opener that works for them?? But, it's also important to realize how it looks when I have 3 or 4 of them in my message history. Yeah...it's looks a little crazy. LOL Ok folks, that's all for today. Until next time...I hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend!

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