The Female of the Species

    WHEN the Himalayan peasant meets the he-bear in his pride, 
    He shouts to scare the monster, who will often turn aside. 
    But the she-bear thus accosted rends the peasant tooth and nail. 
    For the female of the species is more deadly than the male.

    When Nag the basking cobra hears the careless foot of man, 
    He will sometimes wriggle sideways and avoid it if he can. 
    But his mate makes no such motion where she camps beside the trail. 
    For the female of the species is more deadly than the male.

    When the early Jesuit fathers preached to Hurons and Choctaws, 
    They prayed to be delivered from the vengeance of the squaws. 
    'Twas the women, not the warriors, turned those stark enthusiasts pale. 
    For the female of the species is more deadly than the male.

    Man's timid heart is bursting with the things he must not say, 
    For the Woman that God gave him isn't his to give away; 
    But when hunter meets with husbands, each confirms the other's tale— 
    The female of the species is more deadly than the male.

    Man, a bear in most relations—worm and savage otherwise,— 
    Man propounds negotiations, Man accepts the compromise. 
    Very rarely will he squarely push the logic of a fact 
    To its ultimate conclusion in unmitigated act.

    Fear, or foolishness, impels him, ere he lay the wicked low, 
    To concede some form of trial even to his fiercest foe. 
    Mirth obscene diverts his anger—Doubt and Pity oft perplex 
    Him in dealing with an issue—to the scandal of The Sex!

    But the Woman that God gave him, every fibre of her frame 
    Proves her launched for one sole issue, armed and engined for the same; 
    And to serve that single issue, lest the generations fail, 
    The female of the species must be deadlier than the male.

    She who faces Death by torture for each life beneath her breast 
    May not deal in doubt or pity—must not swerve for fact or jest. 
    These be purely male diversions—not in these her honour dwells— 
    She the Other Law we live by, is that Law and nothing else.

    She can bring no more to living than the powers that make her great 
    As the Mother of the Infant and the Mistress of the Mate. 
    And when Babe and Man are lacking and she strides unclaimed to claim 
    Her right as femme (and baron), her equipment is the same.

    She is wedded to convictions—in default of grosser ties; 
    Her contentions are her children, Heaven help him who denies!— 
    He will meet no suave discussion, but the instant, white-hot, wild, 
    Wakened female of the species warring as for spouse and child.

    Unprovoked and awful charges—even so the she-bear fights, 
    Speech that drips, corrodes, and poisons—even so the cobra bites, 
    Scientific vivisection of one nerve till it is raw 
    And the victim writhes in anguish—like the Jesuit with the squaw!

    So it comes that Man, the coward, when he gathers to confer 
    With his fellow-braves in council, dare not leave a place for her 
    Where, at war with Life and Conscience, he uplifts his erring hands 
    To some God of Abstract Justice—which no woman understands.

    And Man knows it! Knows, moreover, that the Woman that God gave him 
    Must command but may not govern—shall enthral but not enslave him. 
    And She knows, because She warns him, and Her instincts never fail, 
    That the Female of Her Species is more deadly than the Male.

Denver...I will be in Denver July 8-12th for a conference but will have free time in the evenings if anyone there would like to come downtown and visit.

Update on mom:  My made it through surgery great and is back at home finally.  She still gets tired easily but she is taking things slowly.

Thanks for all the messages of concern and prayer.

My mother is in the Cardiac ICU so I will not be answering emails for a week or so.  Please bare with me during this time.

We will be attending the 1st annual Kink on the River on March 22.

This event can be found on in the 'Kink on the River' or 'Bound in Siouxland' groups.

Hope to see you there.

I am looking for building plans for a free standing whipping post.

Tried looking online but I must not be using the correct search words.

Some quotes from Marquis de Sade that I really like.

"In order to know virtue, we must first acquaint ourselves with vice."

"Happiness lies neither in vice nor in virtue; but in the manner we apreciate the one and the other, and the choice we make pursuant to our individula organization"

" 'Sex' is as important as eating or drinking and we ought to allow the one appetite to be satisfied with as little restraint or false modesty as the other."

"It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure"

"Lust's [assion will be served' it demands, it militates, it tyrannizes."

"My manner of thinking,so you say, cannot be approved.  Do you suppose I care?  A poor fool indeed is he who adopts a manner of thinking for others"

"The imagination is the spur of delights...all depends upon it, it is the mainspring of everything; now, is it not by means of the imagination one knows joy?  Is it not of the imagination that the sharpest pleasures arise?"

"Ther is no more lively sensation than that of pain; its impressions are certain and dependable, they never deceive...."

Finding your Domme

New book

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00CVH3YTY/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B00CVH3YTY&linkCode=as2&tag=mensub-20

Saw the funniest card on FB today.  Check out my photos for the lady with the coffee cup.  She sounds a lot like me.

Think I need a slave for just my closet room. Everytime I turn around its a mess. 

Looking for a submissive female between the ages of 35-55

Saw the cutest T-shirt saying:

"Don't make me put my hands on my hips"

That is just so true of most females

Help!  Every time I try to reply to an email the address changes to my own address and I end up emailing myself.

65 degrees in the house.  Guess who is going to get icy cold feet on their balls at bedtime tonight...(Evil giggle)

Ah!  Hot bath, fuzzy pajammas and a cup of hot chocolate.  What could be better?

Are there personality markers for jealousy? 

I want to introduce a 2nd boy into our play and possibly our lives but I am concerned about jealousy from my alpha boy/husband. 

I keep hearing, 'you won't know until you do it'.  I feel that is inaccurate.  Yes, ultimately I/we won't know until we try it but are there smaller steps to gauge for a reaction? 

My alpha has seen me play with other boys (pain play) but he has not seen me sexually involved with another boy . 

Any suggestions on how to go about bringing a 2nd boy into our lives? 

Thanks

After about a year off, I am back.  Starting off just wanting to catch up with friends and chatting with like-minded people.

After about a year off, I am back.  Starting off just wanting to catch up with friends and chatting with like-minded people.

After about a year off, I am back.  Starting off just wanting to catch up with friends and chatting with like-minded people.

Not looking at this time.

The chat feature on this site doesn't work on my computer so please dont bother asking me to chat on this site.  Sorry.

Another boy who didn't work out.  I so hate the hunt right now that I may need to take a break.

Listen to the lyrics of this song!  So FemDom. 

Walker Hayes "Pants"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QFYBQSOb30I

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