I am an experienced, sane dominant (NOT dominate), and I have returned to the lifestyle after a hiatus of a few years. I am always glad to make new friends in the lifestyle, and to learn and grow. I have been active in bdsm for over 30 years and it feels as if I am just getting started.

I currently own one wonderful slave, and I am open to bonding another, but only one who can flower and prosper in a poly household.

I began in the lifestyle in the late 1980s as a 24 . 7 slave, and began living as a dominant and slaveowner in the 1990s. I suppose I am a switch, in that I have both polarities, but I prefer the dominant role.

I am in the last few years of my sixth decade. My needs and my abilities have changed from what they were in my forties. Mainly, at this point I seek to make friends, and enjoy the company of lifestylers again. 

In terms of slave bonds, I look for mainly service slaves who need to serve, please and be humbled, who need structure and acceptance.   I do not care about age (although big age differences make things more complicated), looks, social class. I do care about hearts and minds.

Open to online relationships, but prefer real-life bonds and friendships.  Now that it is possible again, with COVID vaccines and boosters, to meet in person, I'd love to do so with like minded lifestylers.

Please feel free to say hello, if anything I have said here piques an interest.