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somethndif
Hetero Male, 65, Washington, Washington D.C. 
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somethndif

Time to update this profile. 

 

I am a professional in DC, a very experienced Dominant, intelligent, tall, 6'1", muscular, fit, creative, very sexual and sensual and a bit of a sadist . . .*smiling*  I was in a relationship with "MsAriel" here for well over 14 years, but we are now just friends, still deeply committed to each other.

I am a simple man and to put it simply, I want to get to know you, hurt you (not seriously!) and fuck you.  *smiling*

I enjoy attractive, interesting, sexy women, girly girls, LBD's and red lipstick. I also have some experience with submissive couples.  I am heterosexual.  I do not play with or have sexual contact with men, but I am accepting of other's sexuality whether they are gay or bi, or however they express it. 

I am not monogamous. I also enjoy and have experience with MFM, FMF, MFMFM, and MMFMM combinations.  I like to share!!

Please be HWP.  I work hard to keep shape, and expect the same from any submissive I meet.

All of the pictures are of me. The "Daddy" picture is the most recent, but I have others I can share. 

I ike to use restraints, sometimes rope, floggers, canes -- I do love canes -- and lots of other stuff.  I also love bare hand spanking. Flesh on flesh. My D&s and BDSM are always very sensual and sexual.  I like sex and I like orgasms, giving them and having them.  I have no interest in orgasm denial.

If interested or if you have any questions, contact me.

10/16/2015 3:48:02 PM: Random Thoughts, Aphorisms I'll be adding to this as thoughts occur to me. 1. The only rule is there are no rules. 2. Do what works for you and your partner, because nothing else matters. 3. If it's not working for you, it's not working for me. 4. Negotiation, I hear that works for some people. 5. Play rape? Why would I want to 'play' at fucking someone who doesn't want to fuck me? 6. BDSM and D&s is about relationships and sex. It's always about sex. 7. BDSM is NOT a competitive sport. The goal is NOT to see how extreme you can be, or how much you can endure. See No. 6, above. 8. Every Dominant should have a list of things he/she just won't do. Mine is quite long, actually. 9. Monogamy is boring. 10. Safe word? You can have one if you want one, but you won't need it. 11. If it's not fun, don't do it!! 12. Trust your instincts, if something doesn't feel right, don't do it!! 13. I'm a simple man, I want to hurt you and fuck you. 14. I have to like you, because we will spend more time talking, than we will playing or fucking. 15. Most men are clueless when it comes to women. 16. Just because you can do it, doesn't mean you should do it. 17. You don't have to be an asshole to be a Dominant. 18. There is no 'community,' you are on your own, so be careful and act accordingly. 19. The large majority of 'photographers'are just guys with cameras trying to get laid. 20. As a corollary to No. 19, I'm interested in YOU, not in taking pretty or pornographic pictures of you. 21. Just because he's black, does NOT mean he has a big cock. 22. Just because it's black and white, does NOT mean it's ART! 23. It's the Dom's fault, it's always the Dom's fault. 24. Every submissive disobeys, pokes, prods, pushes and tests, at least sometimes. They want to make sure you're paying attention and care. 25. Everyone hates lawyers . . . until they need one. 26. You can live your life in fear, or you can live your life! 27. A bad day at the ballpark, is better than a good day almost anywhere else! 28. No sins are regretted, as much as those left uncommitted. 29. Stop worrying about labels for you and for your relationship. Every D&s relationship is different and may not fit into someone else's limited definition or little box. See Nos. 1 and 2, above. 30. It's never wrong to do the right thing.

6/17/2013 12:59:29 PM: I've often said that there are three things I find endlessly fascinating about D&s and BDSM. I'm bored and it's late, so I'm putting my thoughts out there. The first two are what I call the two central paradoxes of D&s and BDSM, the third is explained below . . .   First. The first paradox of D&s, is that the submissive always chooses, but she chooses to submit, to give up the ability, right and desire to choose. she chooses to surrender. Her submission turns me on, but I want her to want to submit to me. I want her to need it, to crave it, to be willing to do things for me, she never thought she would do, things she thinks she will not like, but she does them anyway, simply because I want her to do those things, even if it's just for my amusement.   I have no interest in 'force.' No 'play rape' or 'consensual non-consent' (which, honestly, I don't understand. Consensual non-consent is an oxymoron, not a paradox) for me. Why would I want to fuck someone who doesn't want to fuck me?? And it's not because I couldn't 'force' someone. I'm 6'3' and about 235 lbs., muscular and not unfamiliar with non-consensual violence. I'd rather have her ask for it, beg for it, cry for it.   Second. The second paradox of BDSM is that pain is pleasure, and pleasure is pain. And I find exploring pain as pleasure, and pleasure as pain, is fascinating. When things are working, pain enhances sexual arousal, and sexual arousal enhances her ability to accept and endure pain. Where does that cycle end? How far can she go? How far will she go? We'll see.   But I am not a serious sadist. I don't do pain for pain's sake. I do it to enhance her arousal, erotically, sexually. Because in the end, I'm more interested in fucking her and making her cum, over and over, if she can, and in making her squirt and gush, than I am in just hurting her.   Third. I am fascinated by women's sexuality, which I think is far more complex and interesting than men's sexuality. I've been fortunate to have been with many women. I've been with a woman in her 30's who never had an orgasm. I've been with another woman who I once forced to orgasm over 100 times in about 2 1/2 hours. Some women cum easily and often, with others it's a rare occurance.   A woman can fuck dozens of men in one night and enjoy it. There are women who enjoy gangbangs who've done just that. No man can do that. I've known women who can cum from pain, a spanking or a cane stroke, women who can cum from breast play. Women who can cum on command. Women who can cum from being ass-fucked, or from sucking cock, or being face or throat fucked. Women who squirt and gush, and cum, when stimulated in the right way, the right way for them. Because what works for one woman, doesn't always work with every woman, or even most women.   Exploring her sexuality, discovering her sexual limits, helping her discover her sexual limits, introducing her to what may be new things to her, seeing if she responds, seeing if she cums from them, is very appealing and arousing to me, and fascinating to explore. I love pushing limits, usually gently . . smiling

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